James Caruthers wrote:Because ultimately, getting your friends and your career back shouldn’t be the goal at all. The goal should be to fix yourself, and to do everything in your power to ensure that you never find yourself back here again. That means acknowledging everything that happened – not just the stuff people have found out about so far. It means accepting that there may be situations that you need to avoid in future. It means admitting just how bad things got, and beginning a process of real, honest change to make them better.
It isn’t easy, and it may not relaunch your career or win your friends back or repair your damaged reputation. It may mean sacrifice – changing career, moving cities, accepting that you’ll never regain certain friendships – but eventually you’ll be able to look at yourself in the mirror and know that you’ve grown and improved; that you’ve made genuine progress toward a better and healthier future; that you can be proud of your achievements in the months or years since you made the decision to change.
Fucking hell, I don't think actual rapists have to go through this much shit before their communities forgive them.
So let me get this straight. This SJW thinks Bora should change cities, admit to shit that never happened (acknowledging a bunch of secret shit that is assumed to have happened by the SJL, which probably didn't), accept full responsibility (for annoying a woman), change careers and still accept that the SJL will still hate him even after all of that.
Yeah, what they want is so extreme, yet they are convinced they are justified.
Basically, anyone who steps out of their razor thin line of acceptable behavior has forfeited their right to have money, friends, a home, a SO, or get to live in the city they want to live in.
The heartlessness of that guy's post is loud, isn't it?
Why does that guy feel that Bora shouldn't be allowed to find work again, or even retain friendships? How privileged is he to believe anyone is able to go with no income, no future income, and no emotional support system, and instead sink all energy and emotion and time into prostrating, mewling, before the heartless FCu(n)ting jerks?
So vicious.
Complete bullying behavior too, and a terrible pack mentality on display. They see a weak man made weaker, and go in for the kill.
Maybe when Bora fucking commits suicide for the sin of creeping out a woman, maybe then they'll consider the scales balanced.
Yeah, Mykeru brought this up yesterday and it's the point that sticks pretty deeply.
There was some talk about that on Twitter. Gurdur blogged about it.
http://heathen-hub.com/blog.php?b=1762