AndrewV69 wrote:welch wrote:
Something that causes actual harm to anyone. Fuck, I'd take video of her kicking some guy in the nuts. THAT would be far more than you've come up with.
So is that your definition of "real harm"?
it is *A* definition of harm. not the only one, nor is it complete. Sorry, not giving you a laundry list so you can find an edge case and then try to tell me that's how things are every day for every man. You're really bad at hiding your intentions.
AndrewV69 wrote:welch wrote:
Is the MRA movement really based on fear?
You are the one insisting that it is.
Based on what you've written I am. You spend a lot of time afraid of things. You should try not being afraid all the time. It's rather liberating. Also, hiding under the bed gets a bit boring.
AndrewV69 wrote:welch wrote:
Because I thought that at the root, it was about correcting a few key issues that are causing real problems, i.e. "harm", like the inequalities in family court issues, the tendency to convict men based on accusation for certain crimes, and the refusal of the justice system to take crimes committed by women as seriously as the same crimes committed by men.
So those "few key issues" just came out of thin air? There was nothing backing the policies that resulted in the "few key issues"?
Lawmakers, courts, the police, social services et all suddenly started creating these "few key issues" just because?
The roots of inequalities in family court predate the radfem movement by some decades. But, if you have hard, verifiable proof that *none* of those issues existed before radfems, by all means present your proof of the fucking paradise society was prior to the 1960s/1970s.
AndrewV69 wrote:welch wrote:
Those are real problems that cause real harm. Instead, all I see from you are endless streams of FUD about Catherine Mckinnon and OMG FEMINISTS.
Are you going to define what "real harm" is or not?
No more than I am going to define what "taking a shit is". I'm not here to make your life easy. If you think you have proof of actual harm, by all means present it. As we've seen, when presented with proof, (not handwaving and fearmongering), I'm perfectly willing to admit mistakes, as I did with the Summers derivatives timelines.
Show me the money already.
AndrewV69 wrote:welch wrote:
I now see why the MRM movement has so many issues.
I am starting to see that you may have more that a few issues. One of them being hand waving. Another being you behaving like one of those "New Media Douchbags" you keep going on about. You also appear to subscribe to "fuzzy logic".
Are you going to clearly define what "real harm" means to you or not?
You're the one making the claims that radfems are taking over the world and if we don't stop them SOMETHING BAD WILL HAPPEN! ANY MINUTE NOW.
I'm the one saying you're a scared little man who wants attention and manages to feel important by trying to scare people into agreeing with you. You, JTO, Elam, and quite frankly, a rather large chunk of the MRM movement are about as self-aware as a half-empty can of day-old tuna. In that, you're not much different from that you oppose. You take a number of clearly-defineable issues which admittedly are problems, and start looking for boogey(wo)men in the corners everywhere. You turn overexcited college students, who, mind you get just as loud and stupid over minor mealplan changes as over MRM speakers, into the devil. They're young. Young people blow EVERYTHING out of proportion. I see my son do it all the time, he's 19. If you could get a degree in blowing things out of proportion, he'd have a fucking Ph.D.
The difference is, most people grow the fuck up at some point, and realize that you can't make everything TEH END OF TEH WURLD. At some point, you have to sit down and actually analyze things. I did this with Mckinnon et al YEARS ago, and that was when Edwin Fucking Meese was giving her lot a FAR larger platform than she has now. Even the internet wasn't as good a deal for her as that traveling geek show he ran.
Even then I realized that the people who would actually try to create her vision of society were the same numbers as any other fringe group, and that by and large, society routes around idiots the way the internet routes around damage. You don't pretend they don't exist, but you also don't elevate them to the levels you have.
Look at your fucking group, really look at that website and the people behind it, and the vast, the VAST amount of sheer idiocy and stupidity you have to say you disagree with or wish wasn't there and all the rest. You spend more time telling me what you DON'T agree with than what you do, and then you play the "but the rest of it, that's all dead bang right, and you should take it all VERY SERIOUSLY"? On a good day, there's rather a lot there that only differs in name and gender focus from the drivel hensley is spouting, yet because it's got a supposedly more advantageous label for me, I should suddenly accord drivel some serious weight? Hell, even *here*, when forced to dig beyond the hysteria, you've had to back off your original claims of "OMG SEE WHAT TEH RADFEMZ DID!!!" more than once. Doesn't that indicate ANYTHING to you?
Or is the movement so important to you that you ignore even reality?