My wife doesn't want to go to therapy... or she sabotages my attempt. I had a counselor setup but she complained that she was too far away (25 minute drive) and that she would find a local one..... and then proceeds to do nothing. I think she fears what she will be told... cause... well... most of the problem is her (if I do say so myself... haha).CaptainFluffyBunny wrote: ↑ Honestly, this sounds like marriage counseling time. Or even family counseling time. Find an old-school therapist, as the new ones are trained for crap (I studied therapy/psychology master's program after I was injured beyond repair. It's bad.) You don't want to go through life with resentment and bitterness, it's way too short for that shit. You don't deserve to be treated like crap by the people that depend on you.
To some extent I am just blowing off steam. I realize I have to avoid getting resentful so I make my own spaces and times for things. My wife has severe depression from time to time and probably also has ADD (based on my daughter's diagnoses and our understanding of her issues). So.... to a large extent my hand is dealt.
My wife has tried counseling several times and she always hates it.... so... that is probably not in her future.