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Pitchguest wrote:It's obvious that the reason Watson goes on about drunken sex being rape is that everytime she has sex, it would be rape. (Since she can't stop drinking, you see?) It's a ploy. And her willing puppets dance to her tune, as always. Dance, puppets, dance!
It would also make her a rapist since she fucks men who have been drinking all night at conferences...but what...for she is REBECCA WATSON who shall not be questioned and is above suspicion. It is impossible for Queen Bee to rape anybody because of teh PATRIARCHY.

Ironic though that most men would have to be drunker than a labotomised skunk to shag Watson. It must surely be rape every time.

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John Brown wrote:I'll just leave this here:

You weren’t raped. You’re a whore. Join the club.

http://judgybitch.com/2012/10/22/54/
Rape culture holds men, and only men, responsible for what women do. And thanks, but I prefer to be responsible for my own fucking behaviour.


and the next sentence is:
And when I’m about to do something really stupid, that I will regret the next morning, I rely on my friends to save me FROM MYSELF.
Your friends are not responsible for babysitting you, go back to the first sentence.

otherwise, spot on.

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comslave wrote:
John Brown wrote:I'll just leave this here:

You weren’t raped. You’re a whore. Join the club.

http://judgybitch.com/2012/10/22/54/

I think, given the consequences, that we men are expecting way too much of women if we hold them to any standard of responsibility. We just have to accept they'll cry rape if they are given even the slightest justification, and respond accordingly by taking measures not to be in that situation, such as not drinking with them. Maybe even give them a breathalyzer test or something.

The reality is that there are women out there who would rather you spend years in prison and life on the sex offenders registry than admit they were whores for a night. Even if crying rape is very rare, just one can ruin your life.
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Dick Strawkins wrote:Has anyone covered Mother Jen of Blaghaga's return to blogging?
If we can make atheism relevant to racial minorities now, that will result in fewer children being raised in religious households down the line. It’s easier to get people on board now and watch the ripple effect, than wait thirty years and say “Hey, we’ve been ignoring you all this time, but you totally want to join now, right?!” And this doesn’t mean just standing around going “Well, we’re not actively discouraging minorities!” while discussing the History of European Freethinkers for the 39873th time. We need to address relevant issues like skepticism applied to drug laws and incarceration rates, or replicating religious community without the religion, or…well, maybe we should just listen to what they have to say without taking it personally.
We need to make atheism relevant to ethnic minorities.
Therefore we should talk about things that are important to them:

...Applying skepticism to drug laws and incarceration rates! :shock:

Perhaps Jen should take a few more weeks off before she does any more damage (KKKplus?)
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AndrewV69 wrote:...being alone with Beckyboo in any capacity without video evidence should be considered hazardous, because she has given clear warning.
video "evidence" means nothing when inebriated consent = no consent at all = rape

nor does it work in favour of men when she likes rough sex

a video can easily be interpreted many different ways

better find a better way to prove yourself innocent.



I can't believe I need to explain this to Andrew, of all people.

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sacha wrote:
John Brown wrote:I'll just leave this here:

You weren’t raped. You’re a whore. Join the club.

http://judgybitch.com/2012/10/22/54/
Rape culture holds men, and only men, responsible for what women do. And thanks, but I prefer to be responsible for my own fucking behaviour.


and the next sentence is:
And when I’m about to do something really stupid, that I will regret the next morning, I rely on my friends to save me FROM MYSELF.
Your friends are not responsible for babysitting you, go back to the first sentence.

otherwise, spot on, and familiar: http://www.slymepit.com/phpbb/viewtopic ... 734#p37786

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sacha wrote:okay, Steersman, I'm feeling generous at the moment:
But not overly sentimental, I hope. :-)

Although you and Phil are still looking a little defensive when it comes to “The Hitch” – which was sort of my point and which is somewhat of a problem, at least from a general perspective. As mentioned, I expect he had some very good points and arguments – notably, in passing, the article BarnOwl linked to, his undergoing waterboarding to give some credibility to his arguments about torture as government policy – but I expect he had some that were at least very problematic. And in that latter class I would put his opinions, at least some of them, on religion in general and in particular those implied by his book, “God Is Not Great: How Religion Poisons Everything”.

But, as that relates to my earlier quote of franc – “Lay off Hitch” – in the context of that defensiveness and to something else on which I had been planning on responding to in any case, James Onen had referenced and elaborated on an earlier comment by Everyman which franc had, in turn, made some interesting if somewhat inconsistent observations and arguments:
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EveryMan wrote:Religion itself is not harmful, people are. And some people are going to continue to be evil regardless of whether or not their are religions around for them to use to excuse their actions. As L. Ron Hubbard proved, if the existing ones aren't evil enough you can always start your own.
John Gray's (not the mars/venus idiot) whole hypothesis is that god is irrelevant - it is the actions of believers that harm.
However, while I’ll agree with franc there about the “actions of believers” even if it is somewhat inconsistent with Hitchens’ position – unless one wants to argue that a religion is comprised of the actions of its believers, I’m not sure that his assertion is correct that Gray’s “whole hypothesis is that god is irrelevant” or that the hypothesis itself is valid or supportable.

And in that latter case – the question of whether “god is irrelevant”, while it is no doubt true that a non-existent entity has to be considered irrelevant and of no effect, that is a little more difficult to justify if we’re talking about abstractions which can have far reaching effects – for example, considering the season, Santa Claus. What people believe to be true or act as if it were true, even in cases where it is plainly not the case, are still determinants of the “actions of those believers” and have to be considered and understood if one is to make any changes in those actions.

Which is sort of the reason why I think that Gray’s hypothesis is anything but that “god is irrelevant”, at least on the basis of this synopsis of his book Black Mass: Apocalyptic Religion and the Death of Utopia which, in passing, takes some shots at various “New Atheists”, Hitchens in particular. But while it appears that Gray himself is more sympathetic to religion in general than I think is justified, I also think he is quite correct to argue that religion at least encompasses perspectives and perceptions that have been and are of surpassing value that are worth preserving and promoting. And which will be rather difficult to eradicate as many of them are integral to secular humanism.

But I sort of like to think of the problem as a case of “accentuating the positive, eliminating the negative”. Or, maybe more appropriately, of separating the wheat from the chaff, the latter of which can certainly be rather poisonous. And that is sort of why I think that Hitchens, among others, has missed the boat on that score: he got it half right, but was and is badly wrong on the other half.

However, that still leaves open the question of what constitutes the wheat and what the chaff and how they might be separated, if at all – which reminds me of the facehugger scene in Alien. But one thing that I think that is particularly relevant and of potential value is, for want of a better word, transcendence.

Now while that word carries some unfortunate and problematic if not justified connotations of “woo”, there are other connotations and interpretations and implications to the word that have some solid biology and physics behind them – notably the swarming of locusts and the phenomenon of emergence, a notable example of which is the emergence of consciousness – our minds – out of the behaviour of the hundred billion neurons and thousand trillion synaptic connections in our brains.

Seems to me that only through a close analysis of religion itself and an understanding of where and why it has worked can we hope to ameliorate if not obviate cases where it hasn’t. And in which regard, tarring all of religion with the brush of “poison” tends to be rather problematic to say the least, particularly if that “dogma” is subscribed to without much thought or reflection involved.

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*Yawn*

TL;DR

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That black guy is not that scary, looks like a decent fellow to me. They really need a Willie Horton type to burn those carbs. Of course, with today's feminist any male will do, he doesn't have to be a minority since all males are rapists.

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Punker wrote:Something i hadn't considered until a few minutes ago: people who drive might have a different definition of "drunk" than someone who doesn't. Rebecca only got her driver's license a few months ago and she's in her 30s (i assume she's very used to hitching rides?).

Too drunk to drive is hardly drunk at all on the spectrum of intoxication. But it's still what some people label "drunk"

When guys stop giving you rides is proof you've passed your "sell by" date.

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Phil_Giordana_FCD wrote:*Yawn*

TL;DR
Since you seem to be not much interested in the topic or your mind is already made up about it or your attention span is insufficient to wade through my “impenetrable and unnecessarily prolix sludge”, here’s the Coles Notes version, just for you:

Tarring all of religion with the brush of “poison” – as Hitchens has apparently done – tends to be rather problematic to say the least, particularly if that “dogma” is subscribed to without much thought or reflection involved – as seems to be the case with more than a few here, there and about.

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mordacious1 wrote:That black guy is not that scary, looks like a decent fellow to me. They really need a Willie Horton type to burn those carbs. Of course, with today's feminist any male will do, he doesn't have to be a minority since all males are rapists.
I dunno, Horton looks ok to me:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Willie_Horton_(baseball)

Oh, not that one...

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sacha wrote:
comslave wrote:
John Brown wrote:I'll just leave this here:

You weren’t raped. You’re a whore. Join the club.

http://judgybitch.com/2012/10/22/54/

I think, given the consequences, that we men are expecting way too much of women if we hold them to any standard of responsibility. We just have to accept they'll cry rape if they are given even the slightest justification, and respond accordingly by taking measures not to be in that situation, such as not drinking with them. Maybe even give them a breathalyzer test or something.

The reality is that there are women out there who would rather you spend years in prison and life on the sex offenders registry than admit they were whores for a night. Even if crying rape is very rare, just one can ruin your life.
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Steersman wrote:
Phil_Giordana_FCD wrote:*Yawn*

TL;DR
Since you seem to be not much interested in the topic or your mind is already made up about it or your attention span is insufficient to wade through my “impenetrable and unnecessarily prolix sludge”, here’s the Coles Notes version, just for you:

Tarring all of religion with the brush of “poison” – as Hitchens has apparently done – tends to be rather problematic to say the least, particularly if that “dogma” is subscribed to without much thought or reflection involved – as seems to be the case with more than a few here, there and about.
Let's say I'm not really interested in duscussing this subject *here*.

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http://www.odditycentral.com/wp-content ... 50x412.jpg

I don't know if this image will show here, it doesn't on "preview", but if you want to get a look at where Laden lives, just paste the url.

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John Brown wrote:
comslave wrote:
John Brown wrote:I'll just leave this here:

You weren’t raped. You’re a whore. Join the club.

http://judgybitch.com/2012/10/22/54/

I think, given the consequences, that we men are expecting way too much of women if we hold them to any standard of responsibility. We just have to accept they'll cry rape if they are given even the slightest justification, and respond accordingly by taking measures not to be in that situation, such as not drinking with them. Maybe even give them a breathalyzer test or something.

The reality is that there are women out there who would rather you spend years in prison and life on the sex offenders registry than admit they were whores for a night. Even if crying rape is very rare, just one can ruin your life.
My advice: If you're gonna have sex with a stranger, video tape EVERYTHING.
Two security cameras cover my living room, four cameras cover the entrances, one in the bedroom covering the entrance (not the bed itself).

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codelette wrote:
Altair wrote:
Tony Parsehole wrote:
What sort of sceptic community discusses the history or European freethinkers all the time? Even if they did why would that preclude the mythical minorities?
Why do these arseholes insist that minorities need encouraging into scepticism by "discussing relevant issues"? It's not a fucking popularity contest! It is what it fucking is! Nobody is going to get all hyped up about scepticism if it doesn't interest them in the first fucking place!
"Oh hey dude have you heard about scepticism? It's really cool! We all get together online and be sceptic about drug laws and incarceration rates so put down the Xbox pad and come and be sceptical!"
"drug laws and incarceration rates" are relevant to minorities?

Her thought process was probably like this: "Those blacks, latinos and the others are so uneducated that they cannot be interested in discussing history and free-thinking. What could they be interested in? Well, all latinos are drug-dealers and mules and all blacks are murderers and rapist, so let's talk about drug laws and incarceration rates and they will come! YAY!"

What a bigoted, racist cunt.
LOL. I was thinking the same.
What would I want to go to a skeptic conference to talk about those topics? This bitch think people like me cannot process science? She might as well said something like " we, white saviors; can apply skepticism to tacos, burritos, knives watermelon and fried chicken". That way she can appeal to the beaners, the spics and the colored peeps.
Social Justice Warriors say the darndest things.

I honestly though have nowhere to go on that, that's some fucked up racist shit right there.

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sacha wrote:
Steersman wrote:And people used to believe that the world was flat and at the center of the universe too. Which, of course, did not change matters much. Likewise with karma – I sort of expect it is a variation on one of Newton’s laws – every action has an equal and opposite reaction; considering that it works so well in cosmology it would seem to be somewhat of a stretch to think that something along that line wouldn't have some relevance to interpersonal relations: actions have consequeces, not all of which can be foreseen.
That's must be why so many kind, honourable, and often innocent people who have never so much as said a disparaging word towards anyone, have horrific things happen, that cause them pain and suffering, and so many people who do not give a fuck about anyone but themselves, those who use, abuse, and discard anything that will either give them an advantage, or just for the fun of it, live long, healthy, prosperous easy lives... Or were you referring to karma working in the next life? for fuck's sake.

I'll be sure to tell all those children born into poverty in third world countries, and all of those abused and neglected animals, that if they had just been a little kinder, they may not have had this happen. I'm sure they will understand.
That seems to be only one of many different interpretations or understandings of the concept, and not one I particularly subscribe to as it is somewhat too fatalistic for my tastes. Here’s one I find a little more palatable [from that Wikipedia article on the topic you linked to]:
Many Western cultures have notions similar to karma, as demonstrated in the phrase what goes around comes around. Christian expressions similar to karma include reap what one sows (Galatians 6:7), violence begets violence and live by the sword, die by the sword.
Other aphorisms along that same line that I like include “be kind to people you meet on the way up as you might meet them on the way down”. And another is “sow the wind, reap the whirlwind”. But all of those sayings seem to express one connotation of karma that evidence seems to provide some justification for. Here’s a rather nice illustration of the concept you might appreciate:

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/c ... Dreams.jpg

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I don't see "karma", or its western counterparts, as a useful concept, at all. There are so many exemples going contrary to your aphorisms that said aphorisms become meaningless.

And I think that's all I'll say about this subject. You never know, it might tarnish my "karma".

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AndrewV69 wrote:Under the tennants of the Manosphere, be prepared for Twatson get drunk, fuck some hapless beta and cry rape, rather than acknowledge she "setteled" for some "creepy" guy who she would never have looked at twice before she hit the wall.
I wish I could say no way, or that's so unlikely, but really, it's almost inevitable as her next step. She should have a preventive tattoo on her forehead saying "I will accuse you of rape if we have sex, so don't tell me your real name."

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Pitchguest wrote:It's obvious that the reason Watson goes on about drunken sex being rape is that everytime she has sex, it would be rape. (Since she can't stop drinking, you see?) It's a ploy. And her willing puppets dance to her tune, as always. Dance, puppets, dance!
Here are some dancing puppets (but they're not The Twat's puppets). They are dancing to David Bowie, Dance, Magic, Dance...
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Scented Nectar wrote:
AndrewV69 wrote:Under the tennants of the Manosphere, be prepared for Twatson get drunk, fuck some hapless beta and cry rape, rather than acknowledge she "setteled" for some "creepy" guy who she would never have looked at twice before she hit the wall.
I wish I could say no way, or that's so unlikely, but really, it's almost inevitable as her next step. She should have a preventive tattoo on her forehead saying "I will accuse you of rape if we have sex, so don't tell me your real name."
That may be the case if you really believe she's bought into some of the more radical feministic notions that equate sex with rape.
I don't happen to believe that she is a genuine radfem.

I think she's just playing at it.
She occasionally acts like she has gone the whole hog and taken up the sex-negative feminist doctrine - which has, inevitably, led to Ophelia cheering her on. On the other hand her entire history belies the idea that she believes in this and most of her friends, at FTB, are not in that particular feminist camp. Yes, they may all occasionally mouth radfem notions like 'sex while drunk is rape', but do you seriously think that PZ, Laden or Lousy Canuck consider themselves rapists? Of course not, that is something only bad evil people do, not them.
I mean, look at the clip from 'The Big Bang Theory' that sparked Rebecca's latest kerfuffle that involved a situation in which a woman, who appears to have drunk less than a bottle of wine initiates sex with a sober man who is her (ex-boy?)friend.
Does anyone seriously contend that this level of drinking turns sex into rape.

As someone mentioned earlier IF you think that that amount of alcohol makes sex rape then the only logical step is to ban alcohol (rape-juice) from skeptics conferences.
And do you think that Rebecca seriously wants that?

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Phil_Giordana_FCD wrote:I don't see "karma", or its western counterparts, as a useful concept, at all. There are so many exemples going contrary to your aphorisms that said aphorisms become meaningless.

And I think that's all I'll say about this subject. You never know, it might tarnish my "karma".
"Karma" is not necessarily a spooky concept, nor in any way bound to religious concepts of morality. It can also be quite useful psychologically in a non-Deepak Chopraish way. There are two examples -

In Australia and NZ (and probably Britain) there is the idea of "what goes around, comes around", which is a simplistic version of "enlightened self-interest". First, it encourages altruism, to be generous when possible and when it does not impact anything else - with the idea that if everyone does it, it will come back to you eventually - providing you remain humble and do not demand your "rights" or "entitlements". Second, when you are on the receiving end of generosity, simply accept it graciously, without any airs or any insistent refusal. Just say "cheers mate".

The other is when ills are visited on you of the kind that you may have in the past inflicted on others. It gives you something to contemplate - an understanding of why you were probably an asshole. This is called a "life lesson" - and you take something away with it, get up and move on. As opposed to baboons who learn nothing, just wallow in their misfortune and howl their grievances to the world in endless, shameless and protracted exhibitionism.

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John Brown wrote:
To be fair, I took it to mean that drug laws and draconian incarceration rates affect minorities (especially African Americans) more than any other group in America.

There's an easy answer to all of that, though. Fucking end the drug war.
That will not happen in the US anytime soon, as you no doubt realise. But it would very likely make the single biggest change to the "crime" landscape that legislation could reasonably achieve, most of it for the better. I wonder why the people most against it would likely be the same people who are most against government intervention in anything else to do with capitalism "red in tooth and claw"?

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franc wrote:snipSecond, when you are on the receiving end of generosity, simply accept it graciously, without any airs or any insistent refusal. Just say "cheers mate".

The other is when ills are visited on you of the kind that you may have in the past inflicted on others. It gives you something to contemplate - an understanding of why you were probably an asshole. This is called a "life lesson" - and you take something away with it, get up and move on. [snip]
:naughty: functional =/= true. :naughty:

No such thing as karma, lets not pretend otherwise

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welch wrote:So, I see the north texas secular convention has announced the speaker list.

Wonder how close I can guess what each one's talk will be about before the schedule is announced?
What, in that presentation of nebbishes would make me want to stump up the clams to hear them speak (given I don't know most of them from a slice of liverwurst)? I doubt the subject of their talk is going to help that either.

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Dick Strawkins wrote:
Scented Nectar wrote:I wish I could say no way, or that's so unlikely, but really, it's almost inevitable as her next step. She should have a preventive tattoo on her forehead saying "I will accuse you of rape if we have sex, so don't tell me your real name."
That may be the case if you really believe she's bought into some of the more radical feministic notions that equate sex with rape.
I don't happen to believe that she is a genuine radfem.

I think she's just playing at it.
She occasionally acts like she has gone the whole hog and taken up the sex-negative feminist doctrine - which has, inevitably, led to Ophelia cheering her on. On the other hand her entire history belies the idea that she believes in this and most of her friends, at FTB, are not in that particular feminist camp. Yes, they may all occasionally mouth radfem notions like 'sex while drunk is rape', but do you seriously think that PZ, Laden or Lousy Canuck consider themselves rapists? Of course not, that is something only bad evil people do, not them.
I mean, look at the clip from 'The Big Bang Theory' that sparked Rebecca's latest kerfuffle that involved a situation in which a woman, who appears to have drunk less than a bottle of wine initiates sex with a sober man who is her (ex-boy?)friend.
Does anyone seriously contend that this level of drinking turns sex into rape.

As someone mentioned earlier IF you think that that amount of alcohol makes sex rape then the only logical step is to ban alcohol (rape-juice) from skeptics conferences.
And do you think that Rebecca seriously wants that?
Good points. It's hard to know how much is a (sociopathic even?) faking of it. And being an alcoholic (in my view, not necessarily anyone else's; it's relative), she lives hypocritically to what she preaches. She should be kept from getting drunk in any place where there are also men around unless she has a chaperone. Being constantly drunk, all sex she has is rape. She can retroactively take back any consent that was previously given & acted upon.

The idea of making conferences "chem-free" as old 1980's style social justice warriors used to call it, would be fucking hilarious. But, hey, if they are going for diversity and don't want to leave any marginalized groups out, what about ex-drinkers who are very uncomfortable in drinking environments or around drunks. Making sure that chem-free people feel comfortable (including any "straight edge" folks if those types are still around these days), should be right up A+ 's alley. I mean, IF they are going to be consistent in their quest to over-ensure that every group they can think of, feels welcome.

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SPACKlick wrote:
franc wrote:snipSecond, when you are on the receiving end of generosity, simply accept it graciously, without any airs or any insistent refusal. Just say "cheers mate".

The other is when ills are visited on you of the kind that you may have in the past inflicted on others. It gives you something to contemplate - an understanding of why you were probably an asshole. This is called a "life lesson" - and you take something away with it, get up and move on. [snip]
:naughty: functional =/= true. :naughty:

No such thing as karma, lets not pretend otherwise
Where did I say it was "true"? I said "as a concept". I can followup up with "what you think I said" =/= "what I actually said". Your motives for interpretation bias are beyond my control.

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SPACKlick wrote:
franc wrote:snipSecond, when you are on the receiving end of generosity, simply accept it graciously, without any airs or any insistent refusal. Just say "cheers mate".

The other is when ills are visited on you of the kind that you may have in the past inflicted on others. It gives you something to contemplate - an understanding of why you were probably an asshole. This is called a "life lesson" - and you take something away with it, get up and move on. [snip]
:naughty: functional =/= true. :naughty:

No such thing as karma, lets not pretend otherwise
Cesspit of lies -
Enlightened self-interest

Enlightened self-interest is a philosophy in ethics which states that persons who act to further the interests of others (or the interests of the group or groups to which they belong), ultimately serve their own self-interest.

It has often been simply expressed by the belief that an individual, group, or even a commercial entity will "do well by doing good".
Sounds like applying the concept of karma for practical common benefit to me.

It's kinda fundamentalist to simply ditch a word because of its preconceived associations rather than ruminate on the ideas behind the word. Sure, it has it's roots in eastern mysticism - but that does not automatically mean it's gibberish glasshoppa.

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franc wrote:Sounds like applying the concept of karma for practical common benefit to me.

It's kinda fundamentalist to simply ditch a word because of its preconceived associations rather than ruminate on the ideas behind the word. Sure, it has it's roots in eastern mysticism - but that does not automatically mean it's gibberish glasshoppa.
No, it's applying true concepts for practical benefit, rather than taking a woo concept and all its baggage and trying to 1) apply it as a white lie to benefit society 2) Strip away the baggage.

enlightened self interest = good, true, useful
Karma = woo and not useful in and of itself.

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This concept and "karma" are so far appart, I have no idea why this discussion is even taking place.

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Outwest wrote:

Thanks for the tips guys. When we started this, I went and bought a cheap USB headset. ~$30. So, I'll look to upgrade before the next podcast. I looked at the levelator site. I'll ask Wooly (she actually does the recording) to get it before the next podcast.

My issue is that I'm using a MacBook Air. Only has USB as an option (yeah, I'm a Mac guy for the last 8 years).
What's really interesting though, is that when we were doing the 'cast, other than the occasional drops, everything sounded fine. Hell, I wasn't even using my headset and all the voices came across just fine.

So, anyway, I'll be upgrading some hardware in the next week and hopefully, with the suggestions both of you have made, the next 'cast will be a big improvement.

Thanks again.
What welch and co have said is good advice. Just to add a few points.

Mic technique is important. Try to stay about the same distance from the mic throughout, unless you intend to shout/scream/whoop etc. But don't get too close or the proximity effect will make oyu sound "boomy" and you'll be more likely to get noisy "pops" and scratchy "essssses". Watch a good singer in a recording studio and how they back off the mic when they hit the top, power notes and come back again for the more standard stuff. It's an art, but the basics are easy.

Levelator is OK but it won't stop you overloading the mic and getting a clipped file because the distortion happens before it hits the computer. Once it's digitally clipped, the noise is nasty and can't be fixed. Try to keep levels below clipping (see above) but, if you are serious about recording, consider a cheap compressor/limiter/pre amp for your mic. You can get them for under $90 US (maybe less if you look). They won't get used in Abbey Road, but they will help to keep your levels under control. They will also do a great job of bringing up background noise if you aren't careful, so no air-com, rumbling trucks, TV in the next room etc if you can avoid it. Some of these things have a noise gate, which will shut off backgound noise, but will shut you off too, if it is set too high.

A program like Audacity can do your recording and a good deal of processing for you (including removing or reducing a constant background noise) and it's free. Great for post-production.

Another vote for local recording. Also, don't just listen to your set up while the recording is on. Record your room with nothing happening and then listen to it back - you may be surprised what a mic picks up that your hearing simply ignored or processed out. Ideally, everyone involved with the recording should do that. When you bring together your takes, treat each separately and then mix them, if that's how you're working.

Room treatment is great if you can manage it, but is a royal pain in a normal house. There may be an issue if the sound is very "bright" or "boomy" in spots, or is echo-ey, or you sound like you're in a box when you talk. The mic picks up the room "ambience" which most folks don't hear until it's recorded (and played back). A couple blankets or towels on clothes horses or room dividers can make a big difference (as can semi-filled bookshelves) - it's not about sound proofing, but about stopping sound reflecting off the walls/ceiling too much and colouring what you are trying to do. Ideally, if you are going to record locally, the background ambience should be the same (or "dry") in each recording if you want to mix them well, but really, it's a pod cast - give them their money back if they want to complain.

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CommanderTuvok wrote:CONGRATULATIONS on THE PIT for reaching 1,000,000 views.

Here's to the next million, and then some.
Since Mattel pinched our slimepit.com;

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Sure, brag about a million hits...can't you for once think about the poor women?

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Dick Strawkins wrote:
Scented Nectar wrote:
AndrewV69 wrote:Under the tennants of the Manosphere, be prepared for Twatson get drunk, fuck some hapless beta and cry rape, rather than acknowledge she "setteled" for some "creepy" guy who she would never have looked at twice before she hit the wall.
I wish I could say no way, or that's so unlikely, but really, it's almost inevitable as her next step. She should have a preventive tattoo on her forehead saying "I will accuse you of rape if we have sex, so don't tell me your real name."
That may be the case if you really believe she's bought into some of the more radical feministic notions that equate sex with rape.
I don't happen to believe that she is a genuine radfem.

I think she's just playing at it.
She occasionally acts like she has gone the whole hog and taken up the sex-negative feminist doctrine - which has, inevitably, led to Ophelia cheering her on. On the other hand her entire history belies the idea that she believes in this and most of her friends, at FTB, are not in that particular feminist camp. Yes, they may all occasionally mouth radfem notions like 'sex while drunk is rape', but do you seriously think that PZ, Laden or Lousy Canuck consider themselves rapists? Of course not, that is something only bad evil people do, not them.
I mean, look at the clip from 'The Big Bang Theory' that sparked Rebecca's latest kerfuffle that involved a situation in which a woman, who appears to have drunk less than a bottle of wine initiates sex with a sober man who is her (ex-boy?)friend.
Does anyone seriously contend that this level of drinking turns sex into rape.

As someone mentioned earlier IF you think that that amount of alcohol makes sex rape then the only logical step is to ban alcohol (rape-juice) from skeptics conferences.
And do you think that Rebecca seriously wants that?
I think the skepchicks as a whole have re-invented "flirty fishing";

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mordacious1 wrote:Sure, brag about a million hits...can't you for once think about the poor women?
Which ones have been hit a million times?

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AnonymousCowherd wrote:
mordacious1 wrote:Sure, brag about a million hits...can't you for once think about the poor women?
Which ones have been hit a million times?
Internet Watson, in contrast to IRL Watson?

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SPACKlick wrote:
franc wrote:Sounds like applying the concept of karma for practical common benefit to me.

It's kinda fundamentalist to simply ditch a word because of its preconceived associations rather than ruminate on the ideas behind the word. Sure, it has it's roots in eastern mysticism - but that does not automatically mean it's gibberish glasshoppa.
No, it's applying true concepts for practical benefit, rather than taking a woo concept and all its baggage and trying to 1) apply it as a white lie to benefit society 2) Strip away the baggage.

enlightened self interest = good, true, useful
Karma = woo and not useful in and of itself.
You have a problem with the word "concept" don't you?

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franc wrote:
SPACKlick wrote:
franc wrote:Sounds like applying the concept of karma for practical common benefit to me.

It's kinda fundamentalist to simply ditch a word because of its preconceived associations rather than ruminate on the ideas behind the word. Sure, it has it's roots in eastern mysticism - but that does not automatically mean it's gibberish glasshoppa.
No, it's applying true concepts for practical benefit, rather than taking a woo concept and all its baggage and trying to 1) apply it as a white lie to benefit society 2) Strip away the baggage.

enlightened self interest = good, true, useful
Karma = woo and not useful in and of itself.
You have a problem with the word "concept" don't you?
No, I have no problem with the word concept, but you seem to have a problem with the idea that labels carry multiple concepts and associations. Karma is not useful here because it carries a side to it's central concept that's bullshit. Take the central concept, away from the rest of the concept of karma and then polish it a bit and you may have something useful.

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I liked Dear Prudence's response to RW:
"Stop acting like a parody of a gender-studies course catalog..."

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comslave wrote:
Punker wrote:Rebecca only got her driver's license a few months ago and she's in her 30s.

When guys stop giving you rides is proof you've passed your "sell by" date.
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That is all.

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ReneeHendricks wrote:Hey - I wanted to say thanks for all the advice. I think *part* of the problem may have been my own mic. I've got something new I'm trying out next podcast so hopefully that'll help. My desk is also right over my heater vent and my room has an ac unit constantly recirculating air (allergies and crap). I've turned those off this last podcast so hopefully that helped somewhat.

I've saved the advice and see what I can personally do. As we're pretty much all three spread out across the continent, a local recording is pretty much an impossibility.

Hit me up if you want. I'll play 'producer' for ya until you tell me to fuck off. I helped few podcasts when I was hangin out with the paranormal crowd so they could get the hang of things. I just stopped doing one show so I have some extra time available.

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sacha wrote:
Reap wrote: Karma is defined as a result from a reaction, that's it. Karma is not punishment or retribution but simply an extended expression or consequence of natural acts. There is no such thing as good/bad karma because there is no such thing as good/bad as far as the universe is concerned. People involved in the paranormal used to drive me crazy with the "karma comes back to you tenfold".... bullshit.
Karma is the law of moral causation.

http://www.buddhanet.net/e-learning/karma.htm
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karma
http://www.skepdic.com/karma.html
Yes I concur that is the Buddhist definition.

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Reap wrote:
ReneeHendricks wrote:Hey - I wanted to say thanks for all the advice. I think *part* of the problem may have been my own mic. I've got something new I'm trying out next podcast so hopefully that'll help. My desk is also right over my heater vent and my room has an ac unit constantly recirculating air (allergies and crap). I've turned those off this last podcast so hopefully that helped somewhat.

I've saved the advice and see what I can personally do. As we're pretty much all three spread out across the continent, a local recording is pretty much an impossibility.

Hit me up if you want. I'll play 'producer' for ya until you tell me to fuck off. I helped few podcasts when I was hangin out with the paranormal crowd so they could get the hang of things. I just stopped doing one show so I have some extra time available.
We may do that. I think we want to start by implementing some of the suggestions made by welch, et al and see if we can improve things in our next podcast. All of us realize that its going to take a bit of time to work through some of the technical issues and any and all suggestions are welcome.

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Franc, I have just read your excellent blog post, that was some hard work you did there young man, I'm proud of you!

I wonder how much of that Ophelia will quote mine if she ever gets to read it?

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sacha wrote:
John Brown wrote:I'll just leave this here:

You weren’t raped. You’re a whore. Join the club.

http://judgybitch.com/2012/10/22/54/
Rape culture holds men, and only men, responsible for what women do. And thanks, but I prefer to be responsible for my own fucking behaviour.


and the next sentence is:
And when I’m about to do something really stupid, that I will regret the next morning, I rely on my friends to save me FROM MYSELF.
Your friends are not responsible for babysitting you, go back to the first sentence.

otherwise, spot on.
A small point of disagreement, if I may.

I addressed this in one of my videos sometime back. When I was in the Army, there was always one implicit, though unbreakable rule.

Never leave a person behind.

The circumstances didn't matter. Whether it be the battlefield or going out on Friday night getting sloshed, you looked out for your friends and never left them behind.

If at some point they meet up with someone and want to split away from the group, a couple things come into play. The group assesses if you're too far gone to make that decision by yourself. If you are, then you aren't leaving. I don't care if a fist fight erupts because of it. You're not leaving.

If you are able to make that decision by yourself, then somebody from the group makes sure that all relevant information is obtained. Where does this person live? What is his/her phone number? When do you plan on being back? How will you get back? etc, etc...

Leaving a person behind to fend for themselves was a taboo one simply did not break. If you did, be prepared to be a pariah.

Now, I understand that casual social groups aren't like the bonds you have in the military, but if more people looked at it that way, then there would be much less of this going on.

Regardless of gender, you shouldn't be out by yourself, drinking yourself silly in unfamiliar places. And, you also shouldn't be doing said activities with "friends" you can't trust.

Never leave a person behind.

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Hey Welch - seems your recent blog post has caught the beady eye of the Sick Wench of Doom: http://freethoughtblogs.com/almostdiamo ... agreement/

Svan, you wouldn't know a principled disagreement from a suppository.

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A final word on podcast production from me.

Please take any advice that I've offered as merely friendly tips and not PRONOUNCEMENTS FROM THE GREAT AND MIGHTY PODMASTER. Welch can attest that for basically the first year we did AMB I would fly off the handle weekly at the people on Twitter rushing in to explain (podsplain?) how we were doing everything wrong. I still get pissed at the golden-eared freaks who complain about echos and hums that I can only detect by playing the show though an amplifier set to 11.

The absolute most important thing is that you're out there doing something. The content is what's most important. If people can't get over any technical issues that you might have, fuck them --- in the ear.

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My Skype won't laucnh, for some reason.

This is the full extent of what I'm willing to share in terms of internet talks. Untill that fucker dares launch again.

(Maybe I'll try and resboot my computer someday)

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John Brown wrote: A small point of disagreement, if I may.

I addressed this in one of my videos sometime back. When I was in the Army, there was always one implicit, though unbreakable rule.

Never leave a person behind.

The circumstances didn't matter. Whether it be the battlefield or going out on Friday night getting sloshed, you looked out for your friends and never left them behind.

If at some point they meet up with someone and want to split away from the group, a couple things come into play. The group assesses if you're too far gone to make that decision by yourself. If you are, then you aren't leaving. I don't care if a fist fight erupts because of it. You're not leaving.

If you are able to make that decision by yourself, then somebody from the group makes sure that all relevant information is obtained. Where does this person live? What is his/her phone number? When do you plan on being back? How will you get back? etc, etc...

Leaving a person behind to fend for themselves was a taboo one simply did not break. If you did, be prepared to be a pariah.

Now, I understand that casual social groups aren't like the bonds you have in the military, but if more people looked at it that way, then there would be much less of this going on.

Regardless of gender, you shouldn't be out by yourself, drinking yourself silly in unfamiliar places. And, you also shouldn't be doing said activities with "friends" you can't trust.

Never leave a person behind.
You know, this is exactly the reason I couldn't fucking stand doing anything with Army people. You aren't my fucking mommy to be demanding to know where I'm going, and how long I'll be gone, and who's going to be there all the fucking time, and even if you were, I stopped telling her all that shit when I was like 13. If I don't show up for morning formation, assume I'm either AWOL or dead. Don't come looking for me, in case it's the first.

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Rystefn wrote:
John Brown wrote: A small point of disagreement, if I may.

I addressed this in one of my videos sometime back. When I was in the Army, there was always one implicit, though unbreakable rule.

Never leave a person behind.

The circumstances didn't matter. Whether it be the battlefield or going out on Friday night getting sloshed, you looked out for your friends and never left them behind.

If at some point they meet up with someone and want to split away from the group, a couple things come into play. The group assesses if you're too far gone to make that decision by yourself. If you are, then you aren't leaving. I don't care if a fist fight erupts because of it. You're not leaving.

If you are able to make that decision by yourself, then somebody from the group makes sure that all relevant information is obtained. Where does this person live? What is his/her phone number? When do you plan on being back? How will you get back? etc, etc...

Leaving a person behind to fend for themselves was a taboo one simply did not break. If you did, be prepared to be a pariah.

Now, I understand that casual social groups aren't like the bonds you have in the military, but if more people looked at it that way, then there would be much less of this going on.

Regardless of gender, you shouldn't be out by yourself, drinking yourself silly in unfamiliar places. And, you also shouldn't be doing said activities with "friends" you can't trust.

Never leave a person behind.
You know, this is exactly the reason I couldn't fucking stand doing anything with Army people. You aren't my fucking mommy to be demanding to know where I'm going, and how long I'll be gone, and who's going to be there all the fucking time, and even if you were, I stopped telling her all that shit when I was like 13. If I don't show up for morning formation, assume I'm either AWOL or dead. Don't come looking for me, in case it's the first.
/shrug

That's all well and good and we certainly had people going their own way like that. But the behavior I'm talking about is all pre-agreed upon.

And, if you're in my squad/platoon/whatever, I don't care what you say...if you're incapacitated because you drank yourself to oblivion, you're going home. We can fight about it in the morning, but for now, you're going home.

We all have our own definitions of what friends are and aren't, but to me, a friend would never allow me to act in a way that may get me killed if he can help it.

Also, it must be understood that a friend would little tolerate that behavior. You get to fuck up and make an ass of yourself once or twice, and I'll have your back, but when it's time to straighten up, it's time to straighten up.

You're right, they aren't your mother, but you have to trust them in situations most people will never face.

Like I said, this doesn't translate well over into civilian life, and maybe it shouldn't, but I'd much rather hang out with a group of people who have my back if I fuck up than a group who will ditch me for some shiny bauble.

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Rystefn wrote:
John Brown wrote: A small point of disagreement, if I may.

I addressed this in one of my videos sometime back. When I was in the Army, there was always one implicit, though unbreakable rule.

Never leave a person behind.

The circumstances didn't matter. Whether it be the battlefield or going out on Friday night getting sloshed, you looked out for your friends and never left them behind.

If at some point they meet up with someone and want to split away from the group, a couple things come into play. The group assesses if you're too far gone to make that decision by yourself. If you are, then you aren't leaving. I don't care if a fist fight erupts because of it. You're not leaving.

If you are able to make that decision by yourself, then somebody from the group makes sure that all relevant information is obtained. Where does this person live? What is his/her phone number? When do you plan on being back? How will you get back? etc, etc...

Leaving a person behind to fend for themselves was a taboo one simply did not break. If you did, be prepared to be a pariah.

Now, I understand that casual social groups aren't like the bonds you have in the military, but if more people looked at it that way, then there would be much less of this going on.

Regardless of gender, you shouldn't be out by yourself, drinking yourself silly in unfamiliar places. And, you also shouldn't be doing said activities with "friends" you can't trust.

Never leave a person behind.
You know, this is exactly the reason I couldn't fucking stand doing anything with Army people. You aren't my fucking mommy to be demanding to know where I'm going, and how long I'll be gone, and who's going to be there all the fucking time, and even if you were, I stopped telling her all that shit when I was like 13. If I don't show up for morning formation, assume I'm either AWOL or dead. Don't come looking for me, in case it's the first.
Oh noes, woah for Rystefen, is people care about where he is and would be comforted to know he's ok, he's to big a man for all that shit. FFS Rystefen, join society, it's awesomer than anyone without it.

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Angry_Drunk wrote:A final word on podcast production from me.

Please take any advice that I've offered as merely friendly tips and not PRONOUNCEMENTS FROM THE GREAT AND MIGHTY PODMASTER. Welch can attest that for basically the first year we did AMB I would fly off the handle weekly at the people on Twitter rushing in to explain (podsplain?) how we were doing everything wrong. I still get pissed at the golden-eared freaks who complain about echos and hums that I can only detect by playing the show though an amplifier set to 11.

The absolute most important thing is that you're out there doing something. The content is what's most important. If people can't get over any technical issues that you might have, fuck them --- in the ear.
We are taking it for what it is: advice. Advice though from others that have been podcasting for a while is valuable to us. I guess what pissed me off yesterday was decius' comment. Okay, we have technical issues, we need to tweek some things. Okay, I get it. What he didn't do was offer any constructive advice how we could do that. Only expecting that after 3 podcasts, we'd have fixed all the technical issues. I was: "wait, what? after THREE podcasts?"

That's where welch, then you jumped in - and later Reap - to offer advice and help based on your experience. We have little. We'll get there. And yes, I think the ccontent is important and I hope those that have listened through all the technical quirks have found the content enjoyable.

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John Brown wrote:
Now, I understand that casual social groups aren't like the bonds you have in the military, but if more people looked at it that way, then there would be much less of this going on.

Regardless of gender, you shouldn't be out by yourself, drinking yourself silly in unfamiliar places. And, you also shouldn't be doing said activities with "friends" you can't trust.

Never leave a person behind.
Jebus fucking christ, then some people wonder why I hate the military. Just looks at the paranoid mentality that pervades it.
We're talking about adults enjoying a few drinks and then taking off for sex with a stranger. If someone is overstepping any boundary in the situation you describe, it's these nanny-mates of yours.

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Well, I see that Ryfsten got there before me.

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decius wrote:
John Brown wrote:
Now, I understand that casual social groups aren't like the bonds you have in the military, but if more people looked at it that way, then there would be much less of this going on.

Regardless of gender, you shouldn't be out by yourself, drinking yourself silly in unfamiliar places. And, you also shouldn't be doing said activities with "friends" you can't trust.

Never leave a person behind.
Jebus fucking christ, then some people wonder why I hate the military. Just looks at the paranoid mentality that pervades it.
We're talking about adults enjoying a few drinks and then taking off for sex with a stranger. If someone is overstepping any boundary in the situation you describe, it's these nanny-mates of yours.
It's not "Nanny Mates", If I saw you climb to the outside of the railing to walk along the bridge, I'd hoy you back in so you wouldn't die by falling off the bridge, because you're clearly too pissed to make that decision. If you're further gone than the socially agreed upon (varies by group) limit of deciding who to fuck then I'll make your excuses and keep you safe, and It's a comfort knowing you'd do the same for me.

If you are going off I may not go quite as far as the military lot, but there circs are a little different, but I'd make sure I knew roughly where you were heading and that you had an idea how to get back.

FFS, it's mates looking out for eachother to make sure they don't wind up dead, hurt or worse sleeping with a femistazi.

Honestly, do you not give a fuck if your mate winds up dead?

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there =/=their

I =/= awake

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decius wrote:
John Brown wrote:
Now, I understand that casual social groups aren't like the bonds you have in the military, but if more people looked at it that way, then there would be much less of this going on.

Regardless of gender, you shouldn't be out by yourself, drinking yourself silly in unfamiliar places. And, you also shouldn't be doing said activities with "friends" you can't trust.

Never leave a person behind.
Jebus fucking christ, then some people wonder why I hate the military. Just looks at the paranoid mentality that pervades it.
We're talking about adults enjoying a few drinks and then taking off for sex with a stranger. If someone is overstepping any boundary in the situation you describe, it's these nanny-mates of yours.
As I stated above... /shrug

If someone is incapacitated, they aren't going anywhere. They are going home. We can fight about it in the morning, and you can stamp your feet all you want, but you're going home.

If you're doing OK and want to leave the group, then you tell us generally where you're going to be and when you'll be back. That way, if you end up missing, we have a fucking clue on where to start looking for you.

Like I said above, this is all implicit and agreed upon. Don't like it? Don't come out with us. It's as simple as that.

Every single one of us has to know that the people we are with are reliable. If you're willing to abandon a comrade while out drinking, then what the fuck are you gonna do when the bullets start flying?

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SPACKlick wrote:
decius wrote:
John Brown wrote:
Now, I understand that casual social groups aren't like the bonds you have in the military, but if more people looked at it that way, then there would be much less of this going on.

Regardless of gender, you shouldn't be out by yourself, drinking yourself silly in unfamiliar places. And, you also shouldn't be doing said activities with "friends" you can't trust.

Never leave a person behind.
Jebus fucking christ, then some people wonder why I hate the military. Just looks at the paranoid mentality that pervades it.
We're talking about adults enjoying a few drinks and then taking off for sex with a stranger. If someone is overstepping any boundary in the situation you describe, it's these nanny-mates of yours.
It's not "Nanny Mates", If I saw you climb to the outside of the railing to walk along the bridge, I'd hoy you back in so you wouldn't die by falling off the bridge, because you're clearly too pissed to make that decision. If you're further gone than the socially agreed upon (varies by group) limit of deciding who to fuck then I'll make your excuses and keep you safe, and It's a comfort knowing you'd do the same for me.

If you are going off I may not go quite as far as the military lot, but there circs are a little different, but I'd make sure I knew roughly where you were heading and that you had an idea how to get back.

FFS, it's mates looking out for eachother to make sure they don't wind up dead, hurt or worse sleeping with a femistazi.

Honestly, do you not give a fuck if your mate winds up dead?
Yeah, because as everyone knows, death is the most likely outcome of drunken sex.

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