I actually lost a real-life friend over her post today.Pitchguest wrote:Honestly. I'm still stunned about it. "Violent masculinity at the heart of whiteness." Jesus fucking Christ.
Friend posted a link with no comment on Facebook.
I would just copy/paste the convo, but he unfriended-->blocked me.Me: Is this article supposed to be satire?
Him: No, why?
Me: "violent whiteness whatever", wtf?
Him (he is Central American, looks tan American white dude if you dont know it): It is true based off my observations of American Football!
Me: LOL!!!! You put on a Boca jersey and sit in the River stadium and you enjoy the peace and serenity of non-American-football fans. Did someone hack your account?
Him: Thats not fair because those people are lower class! Its middle class liberals calling for blood at American Football games!
Me: ROFLOLOL! One of the reasons for the Boca/River rivalry is that Boca fans are Average Joes and River fans are rich bitches! Why did you say that??
Him: IM NOT RACIST YOURE RACIST BECAUSE YOU THINK SOUTH AMERICANS ARE MORE VIOLENT THAN AMERICAN FOOTBALL FANS! YOURE RACIST BECAUSE OF YOUR AMERICAN CULTURE!!! THEY ACT LIKE PRIMATES!!!111!!ONE!!! THEIR GUNS ARE PENISES!!!
Me: I can name, like, one American football team. Just because you grow up in the US doesnt mean you know jack shit about football. And you know I got a gun because of my stalker, but somehow thats me expressing my penis envy?
Him: IM NOT RACIST YOURE RACIST!!!
Me: lol "How the heck does this dumb white Okie know more about international soccer clubs than me?? It must be a dirty Jew trick!" Do your white students know you look on them with such disdain? Isnt your wife white? And you are a scientist- How can you use the word 'primate' as an insult. We ARE primates. Your race never played a role in our interactions. Its a shame I was just a dumb white primate who lost her fur and found a gun to you.
Im assuming 1) I knew he was having trouble finding work. Im guessing that is not because everyone in science is having trouble finding work, but WHITEY!!! now, and 2) probably having trouble with his wife.
Ive literally been friends with this man since 2007. He was one of the nicest, soft-spoken, intelligent gentlemen Ive interacted with here in OK (though there are tons of nice folks in OK). But thanks to that fucking article, he flipped the fuck out. I have *never* seen him behave that way before (it was worse than I conveyed, I cant remember things word-for-word).
Sad.



