astrokid.nj wrote:Dilurk wrote:Has it occurred to anyone else that we may becoming the bullies we are attacking? Maybe we are as bad to pile on and all laugh at Amy for freaking out over a T-shirt? What would you guys do if Surly Amy somehow chose to post on here to defend her side? Would you be willing to give her a listen?
I'm not saying criticism isn't necessary, but there comes a point where the point has been made and there is nothing more useful to be said.
Dilurk, I suspect you havent been on the original slimepit, and therefore dont understand the spirit of it. There is no collective
You assume wrong. I have been lurking on the original slime pit since before day 1 as I've been a long time reader of ERV. Just where do you think franc got some of the information he had? Oh he found 99.99% of his own information, but I think I surprised him a couple of times.
agenda here.. everybody is on his/her own. Its an anything goes kind of env. In this particular case, I am not just piling on Surly.. I
I am perfectly fine with being on my own as long as it isn't some crazy phoning me at 3am, or getting crazed emails from ex employees, or getting DDoS'd at home (yes all of this has happened to me)
am piling on the entire infrastructure that supports this. I am venting my frustration at the system. consider what would happen if the system evolves in its current direction and supports policies like the ones FfTB demands. Who are the people who pay the price.. Its
We agree here. This is madness. And yes, I fully understand there is frustration, I am frustrated as well. I also detest bullies.
And that is what is dividing us,
men/
women when it should just be
human equality. I can dream can't I? I can dream of a world where both parents get equal custody rights, or where we simply treat each other with respect. That's all I expect from others, respect. Respect for my difference in opinion at least. I can see I get it here on the slimepit , my opinions would get me banned on the fFtB. I don't believe in women or men cheering squads, I believe in people. The feminism that is espoused on fFtB does not represent me because it represents a female cheering squad.
I have tried pointing out to you before how feminist policies/laws/social norms hurt men massively before. You nod your head, and
then point to some triviality like 'yeah.. but men have benefited from women getting into the workforce'. You dont have an
Because I knew this already, custody cases, children's aid. I could tell you stories of injustice as well. Were you thinking I was somehow ignorant of this? You do like to presume so.
understanding of whats at stake here for men.
Oh yes I do.
Maybe if you weren't so wrapped up inside your own dogma, you would have seen that.
Your responses are juvenile to the point that debate is useless. Please stop telling the rest of us what to do, or trying to send us on a guilt trip.
And yet you do to me? tu quoque.