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Aneris wrote:I worry more about Karen. Lets say it was a mess, emotions got the better of her, she forged mails and then thought it a good idea to collect money to defend herself, and dug herself deeper into the mess, has that volatile and low self-esteem personality — that's not good.
At least she made some cash out of it.

Swings and roundabout$, eh.

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I finished the Radford Files while at work after JV facebooked them. Oh my goodness.

I know that several people on here seemed - before this Great Reveal - to be tending toward the Stollznow side of the affair. Has this altered your views at all?

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rayshul wrote:I finished the Radford Files while at work after JV facebooked them. Oh my goodness.

I know that several people on here seemed - before this Great Reveal - to be tending toward the Stollznow side of the affair. Has this altered your views at all?
Yes. I am agnostic as even a provisional belief is not something I can support given the mountain of contrary evidence. Added to that, I do not yet trust a lot of the evidence either.

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:-) Skullduggery to the left of us, mendacity to the right ....

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The Midnight Marauder seems to be up and about but he's not really utilizing any of the juicy meat PZ layed out for everyone tonight.

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The Midnight Marauder seems to be up and about but he's not really utilizing any of the juicy meat PZ laid out for everyone tonight.

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Sunder wrote:The Midnight Marauder seems to be up and about but he's not really utilizing any of the juicy meat PZ laid out for everyone tonight.
Maybe he or she is testing the waters to see if PZ is monitoring his site at ~3am Midwest time, tonight.

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rayshul wrote:I finished the Radford Files while at work after JV facebooked them. Oh my goodness.
:-) But my goodness, indeed. Kind of a tragedy in a way though, even if there might an object lesson or two in amongst the ordure.
rayshul wrote:I know that several people on here seemed - before this Great Reveal - to be tending toward the Stollznow side of the affair. Has this altered your views at all?
I was certainly tending in that direction, and I expect there's still an element of truth in Stollznow's account. Although that something may suggest the Stockholm Syndrome is in play. But "the Great Reveal" - the potential rapturing of true believers on all sides - is certainly a plausible alternative that raises a few questions about Stollznow's motivations and credibility, even if some elements of Radford's take don't hang together all that well either - that he too has a bit of bias in his interpretations. But truly a mess though that would challenge the wisdom of Solomon.

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acathode wrote: Also, if, IF, the stuff on Radford's site is true, then I'm kinda surprised about how she not only manage to get a relationship in the first place, but how she manages to pretty much get multiple men fighting over her, and even get them to marry her.
You know the way "nice guys" always complain that women go for assholes? Men do too.

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Brive1987 wrote: The only niggle I have is - "on what basis did CFI discipline him at all?"
I don't know what the laws are in the relevant jurisdiction, but where I am, a manager is personally liable if, when notified of sexual harassment, he takes no action, and the harasser does it again. So for every allegation of sexual harassment, there is a reprimand and a note put on the alleged harasser's file. And that's all. So in the two cases of sexual harassment allegations that I have personal knowledge of, the guy who put his hand down the temp's jeans as she bent over a filing cabinet, having previously been told to stop getting handsy, got a slap on the wrist, and the guy who engaged in a bit of mutual flirtation with a female co-worker and told her he wanted to stop before it went too far got an unfair black mark against his name. Don't see justice being done in either case.

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paddybrown wrote:
acathode wrote: Also, if, IF, the stuff on Radford's site is true, then I'm kinda surprised about how she not only manage to get a relationship in the first place, but how she manages to pretty much get multiple men fighting over her, and even get them to marry her.
You know the way "nice guys" always complain that women go for assholes? Men do too.
Yeah, guys love mental chicks. The most mental women I've met were fucking knee deep in dudes.

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Gumby wrote:PZ bellows thusly:
Ben Radford has taken the next step in sleaze, dumping all of his and Karen Stollznow’s mutual correspondence to the web, along with various other documents to demonstrate that yes, they once had a relationship, that Stollznow has had some turbulent relationships with others, etc., etc., etc. None of it really matters — does he think that somehow having once had a relationship, it means he can never ever be guilty of harassment ever again?

But I just want to mention one piece of ‘evidence’ he has released to the world. It’s a selfie he took of himself, shirtless, in bed with a woman. Radford has a smug smirk on his face; the woman is covering her face with her hand, clearly not wanting any part of this exhibition. Radford has commissioned an expert in photographic analysis to compare her hand to Stollznow’s hand in other photos, to ‘prove’ that it is her. Note what he has done: he has taken a picture of a woman in an intimate situation, clearly against her wishes, and has now posted it to the web, with evidence to identify her.

And he thinks this vindicates him.

My god. What a revolting narcissistic scumbag.
http://freethoughtblogs.com/pharyngula/ ... -f-christ/

TL;DR:
LALALALALALA I CAN'T HEAR YOU!!!!
Myers, you are a joke. You are worse than a creationist. You despicable piece of shit.

This psycho woman destroys a man's reputation, cons thousands of dollars out of pious pricks like you to fight this man in court, and you have the gall - the utter fucking GALL - to complain about the man defending himself? When he was the one who tried to settle amicably, and the psycho bitch was the one that FORCED him to fight on?

Fuckinv HELL you're a prick, Myers. A lying, retconning, goalpost-moving, askeptical creationist ideologue prick.

You disgust me.

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rayshul wrote:
paddybrown wrote:
acathode wrote: Also, if, IF, the stuff on Radford's site is true, then I'm kinda surprised about how she not only manage to get a relationship in the first place, but how she manages to pretty much get multiple men fighting over her, and even get them to marry her.
You know the way "nice guys" always complain that women go for assholes? Men do too.
Yeah, guys love mental chicks. The most mental women I've met were fucking knee deep in dudes.
If you're a shy or introverted type of guy, not accustomed to dating a lot of women, these kind of 'mental chicks' are probably the main group of women that will behave in a sexual way towards you.
It's not surprising that they get a lot of men attracted to them - it's really just a supply and demand situation.
I would guess that it is probably not just sex, but also an emotional/intimacy thing that's the attraction, but both are closely connected. Mental chicks' find it easy to be intimate with others, whereas non-'mental chicks' will much more rarely pursue a relationship with an introverted guy, instead preferring to pick and choose from those guys who actively pursue them.

Ironically, in terms of the whole feminism/patriarchy/enforced gender roles discussion, this situation could be tackled to a certain extent if traditional gender roles in relationships could be altered. If it became the case that women actively pursued men just as much as men pursued women, then we would have less of a problem with the current situation where the only women (or at least the majority) who actively pursue men are the mental chicks.
Strangely enough we see very little call from neo-feminism to end this particular aspect of traditional gender roles.

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rayshul wrote:
paddybrown wrote:
You know the way "nice guys" always complain that women go for assholes? Men do too.
Yeah, guys love mental chicks. The most mental women I've met were fucking knee deep in dudes.
Sad but true.

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Is it me or has @parabaxter deleted his tweets of the conversation with Mykeru?

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Most feminists have no interest in changing the dating power dynamic from the traditional model, because non-traditional men don't get them excited. They want men to validate all their feminist newspeak nonsense, but at the end of the day, they choose men who embody "traditional" gender characteristics. Because those characteristics are usually attractive to them.

So a man who wants a traditional woman is a patriarchal pig, but a feminist who wants a traditional man faces no blowback. But hey, that's the sexual power dynamic, and most feminists have no interest in changing how that shit works. A lot of feminists are still traditionalists when it comes to their own lives, refusing to date or marry someone who makes less money than them and is content to live a modest, unambitious life.

All those feminists who talk about wanting a nice guy would shit a brick if they were told they need to seek out introverted guys and pursue them actively.

Obviously, I'm generalizing a bit, because there are always exceptions in dating. Some introverts are genuinely creepy and damaged people. Sometimes they're just inexperienced, but sometimes it's indicative of mental or emotional problems that need treatment. For every quirky nerd girl out there, there's another crazy bitch who will fuck your life up. I assume it's the same for you womyn when you meet introverted guys.

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Kenteken wrote:Is it me or has @parabaxter deleted his tweets of the conversation with Mykeru?
It's not just you: they're all gone.

His most recent tweets are talking about their readiness to fight it in court..... yeah, good luck with that.


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I just think all guys find mental chicks hot. That's why we have the "femme fatale" type and the "manic pixie dream girl", which cater to the two ends of sexiness. More or lessly.

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Kenteken wrote:Is it me or has @parabaxter deleted his tweets of the conversation with Mykeru?
Last tweet was 15 hours ago - I assume that he is having some interesting conversations with Karen at the moment

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This particular situation really shows (crystal clear) the difference between the Pit and the baboons. When Radford published the retraction without getting it signed, most here became more skeptical of the situation. Many stated that they were wrong to take that retraction as gospel. As new evidence appeared, we reevaluated the truthfulness of both sides.

When Radford publishes pretty damning (if not conclusive) evidence showing that Stollznow might be lying, the FTB clowns double down and refuse to give credence to (or in some cases even look at) that evidence. They've chased off most people that would question PZ and his warped view on life. They can't be wrong, they can't question the statements of a believer. Go ahead and support Karen, but at least admit that it doesn't look good. Something, anything that would go against the party line.

Then PZ sets up an escape route for Karen, if she loses (or drops) the case. No good lawyer wants to go up against Ben's lawyer because that guy is mean and ruthless. Before, it was because the poor dear had no money, now it's because Radford's lawyer is mean and scares other lawyers away. They serve the koolaid in 50 gallon drums over there and yet, they still run out often.

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Søren Lilholt wrote:
Gumby wrote:PZ bellows thusly:
Ben Radford has taken the next step in sleaze, dumping all of his and Karen Stollznow’s mutual correspondence to the web, along with various other documents to demonstrate that yes, they once had a relationship, that Stollznow has had some turbulent relationships with others, etc., etc., etc. None of it really matters — does he think that somehow having once had a relationship, it means he can never ever be guilty of harassment ever again?

But I just want to mention one piece of ‘evidence’ he has released to the world. It’s a selfie he took of himself, shirtless, in bed with a woman. Radford has a smug smirk on his face; the woman is covering her face with her hand, clearly not wanting any part of this exhibition. Radford has commissioned an expert in photographic analysis to compare her hand to Stollznow’s hand in other photos, to ‘prove’ that it is her. Note what he has done: he has taken a picture of a woman in an intimate situation, clearly against her wishes, and has now posted it to the web, with evidence to identify her.

And he thinks this vindicates him.

My god. What a revolting narcissistic scumbag.
http://freethoughtblogs.com/pharyngula/ ... -f-christ/

TL;DR:
LALALALALALA I CAN'T HEAR YOU!!!!
Myers, you are a joke. You are worse than a creationist. You despicable piece of shit.

This psycho woman destroys a man's reputation, cons thousands of dollars out of pious pricks like you to fight this man in court, and you have the gall - the utter fucking GALL - to complain about the man defending himself? When he was the one who tried to settle amicably, and the psycho bitch was the one that FORCED him to fight on?

Fuckinv HELL you're a prick, Myers. A lying, retconning, goalpost-moving, askeptical creationist ideologue prick.

You disgust me.
Couldn't agree more. I thought my opinion of Myers couldn't sink any lower. I was wrong.

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Michael J wrote:
Kenteken wrote:Is it me or has @parabaxter deleted his tweets of the conversation with Mykeru?
Last tweet was 15 hours ago - I assume that he is having some interesting conversations with Karen at the moment
I pray that the lord looks after him and protects him in his time of need. That guy should be careful or the police will be digging up his yard looking for him.

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Aneris wrote:I worry more about Karen. Lets say it was a mess, emotions got the better of her, she forged mails and then thought it a good idea to collect money to defend herself, and dug herself deeper into the mess, has that volatile and low self-esteem personality — that's not good.
Saying "emotions got the better of her" makes it sound like this was a kind of spontaneous outburst from KS. But if even half of what Radman alleges is true, it sounds much more premeditated than that. That said, I do think there is more emotion in this rather than some grand master plan by KS, along with a certain rat cunning.

Having doubled down on the retraction retraction, she seems the type to triple down if she gets the chance to feel that she was "right all along". Having the cheer squad bawling away in the background and chipping in their rent money will only promote that. But even if she loses big, there is nothing in the history to suggest her very likely rage will be directed at herself.

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rayshul wrote:I just think all guys find mental chicks hot. That's why we have the "femme fatale" type and the "manic pixie dream girl", which cater to the two ends of sexiness. More or lessly.
I wouldn't say "all guys" - just like I wouldn't say all women go for assholes. But it is a thing.

I do think calling them "mental" or "crazy" lets asshole women off the hook. In light of Radford's evidence, some are saying they hope Stollznow "gets the help she needs". Fuck that. If the evidence showed Radford had sexually harassed her, would we be hoping he got the help he needed? I think not.

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PZ reminds me of the kid in school who always eggs on someone else to get their ass kicked, but if someone threatens them, they drop their books in a puddle and run home as fast as their chubby little legs will carry them. What a sniveling little asswipe he is.

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rayshul wrote:I just think all guys find mental chicks hot. That's why we have the "femme fatale" type and the "manic pixie dream girl", which cater to the two ends of sexiness. More or lessly.
Some guys do like a little danger. Mind you, they aren't the ones you take home to meet your mother.

Unless she's mental too, of course.

(Insert scary Joan Crawford pic if you can be arsed).

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Michael J wrote:
Kenteken wrote:Is it me or has @parabaxter deleted his tweets of the conversation with Mykeru?
Last tweet was 15 hours ago - I assume that he is having some interesting conversations with Karen at the moment
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I missed the court documents on my first read through.

I wonder if Baxter is okay.

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Dick Strawkins wrote:

If you're a shy or introverted type of guy, not accustomed to dating a lot of women, these kind of 'mental chicks' are probably the main group of women that will behave in a sexual way towards you.
It's not surprising that they get a lot of men attracted to them - it's really just a supply and demand situation.
I would guess that it is probably not just sex, but also an emotional/intimacy thing that's the attraction, but both are closely connected. Mental chicks' find it easy to be intimate with others, whereas non-'mental chicks' will much more rarely pursue a relationship with an introverted guy, instead preferring to pick and choose from those guys who actively pursue them.
Nah...Not sure about that. My theory is that "mental chicks" usually come across as articulate, intelligent & charming...and know how to flirt in the way that make men wonder and be distracted (overly risque). So while there's a prospect of Hot Sex... what the MC's want is a Daddy Figure and seek out "alpha" males. So the game begins and the "mental" oscillate between wanting the unconditional fatherly love and guidance to the "fuck me and show me the full force of your passion". The sucker is in two minds and has to serve both functions... the mental is just playing a game.

I've seen blokes do this too.....

I do think PZ is right and calling Ben sleazy...I did get the impression that while Ben didn't want anything to do with her with regards to a committed relationships and kudos for making that clear (if he's telling the truth) he certainly milked the situation IMHO. "we're in an Open Relationship"... Ben didn't fall for this he just didn't care....and Baxter.... I hope Mykeru got through to him. Nobody can be that dense.

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Brive1987 wrote:I've spent available time reading the full Radford site and not the 'pit.

Interested to catch up, but .......

Never in my wildest imaginations could I conceive that such a mother lode of evidence existed. No wonder PZ won't post a link.

Moreover it appears Mykeru's instincts were right all along and the situation far less nuanced than I had imagined. Bitch be crazy indeed.

The only niggle I have is - "on what basis did CFI discipline him at all?"

And for KS's motives, I'm going to stop trying to think those thru on any rational basis. Pity this site wasn't available prior to her appeal.
Radford claims the only reason CFI disciplined him at all was because KS deceived the investigator with the faked emails. I think the allegation of fraud turns on that.

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Are these people taking the absolute piss out of themselves by getting upset over trial by public opinion? It has to be ironic, right? It's not fucking possible to be that completely oblivious.

This is Peez' home turf for fucks sake, they've all been part of it, but now it's time to bring out the fainting couch?

Boggles my fucking mind.

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AnonymousCowherd wrote: Having doubled down on the retraction retraction, she seems the type to triple down if she gets the chance to feel that she was "right all along". Having the cheer squad bawling away in the background and chipping in their rent money will only promote that. But even if she loses big, there is nothing in the history to suggest her very likely rage will be directed at herself.
Both sides seem to be beyond the point of no return on this one. I see it becoming a ware of attrition from here on in.

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paddybrown wrote:
rayshul wrote:I just think all guys find mental chicks hot. That's why we have the "femme fatale" type and the "manic pixie dream girl", which cater to the two ends of sexiness. More or lessly.
I wouldn't say "all guys" - just like I wouldn't say all women go for assholes. But it is a thing.

I do think calling them "mental" or "crazy" lets asshole women off the hook. In light of Radford's evidence, some are saying they hope Stollznow "gets the help she needs". Fuck that. If the evidence showed Radford had sexually harassed her, would we be hoping he got the help he needed? I think not.
Indeedy doodle.

I'm sure they'd talk about him getting the help he needed if he was on their side.

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rayshul wrote:I finished the Radford Files while at work after JV facebooked them. Oh my goodness.

I know that several people on here seemed - before this Great Reveal - to be tending toward the Stollznow side of the affair. Has this altered your views at all?
I was in the middle...this has tipped me to Radford's side but I have a sneaking suspicion he hasn't told the whole truth. The ball is firmly on KS' court to retort or wait till court...hey that rhymed! I should get into rap.

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Ben learns the hard way that free sex sometimes has a catch.

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Matt Cavanaugh wrote:This one goes out to both Rads and Bax:


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Great fricken track from a great album ... speaking of mental chicks...

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mordacious1 wrote:PZ reminds me of the kid in school who always eggs on someone else to get their ass kicked, but if someone threatens them, they drop their books in a puddle and run home as fast as their chubby little legs will carry them. What a sniveling little asswipe he is.
PZ is an ideologue, but I have thought for a long time that his main problem was that he married his childhood sweetheart. He hasn't had the pleasure of going out with range of women that would give him a little bit of cynicism. I got married in my thirties but before then amongst the women who were a pleasure to know, I also met my share of crazies and users.

I remember before or during elevatorgate he produce a blog entry on how to ask women out. You were supposed to approach respectfully - ask once and if knocked back never ask again. I know heaps of women who actually wanted to be pursued first and a couple of very successful marriages where the wife said no to a date for 12 months.

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Hunt wrote:
AnonymousCowherd wrote: Having doubled down on the retraction retraction, she seems the type to triple down if she gets the chance to feel that she was "right all along". Having the cheer squad bawling away in the background and chipping in their rent money will only promote that. But even if she loses big, there is nothing in the history to suggest her very likely rage will be directed at herself.
Both sides seem to be beyond the point of no return on this one. I see it becoming a ware of attrition from here on in.
I think that's the most likely scenario too, but I'm not sure either side has what it takes to go all the way. BR has little choice at the minute but to go to court, but I don't know if his heart, or wallet, is in it. This data dump looks like a way to put pressure on KS for a settlement, but I don't see any evidence she's going to accept that. Once the costs start piling up though, and her lawyers begin to think that winning is less likely, she may simply have to let cooler heads prevail. That won't happen though, until the money is gone and the peanut gallery have gone quiet or forgotten her.

As usual, the only people to benefit from the suit will be the lawyers. But BR just might have shot at redeeming his reputation amongst the skeptical crowd from which he makes his living, even if it never goes near a Court.

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rayshul wrote:Ben learns the hard way that free sex sometimes has a catch.

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Ben may be just as shitty a person as Stollznow. Baxter's looking like the real "victim" here. Victim as in simp.

I hope Baxter wakes up. From his twitter convos with mykeru, it sounded like he was just taking Stollz's word as gospel. Which, considering all the info in the Radford files, seems to indicate even Baxter knows Stollznow is a compulsive liar. Constant lying is a clear sign of BPD behavior. The DV report and the Baxter email have all this information.

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Guestus Aurelius wrote:[youtube]rthHSISkM7A[/youtube]
One of the great 80s movies. As an 11 or 12 year old I saw this and Weird Science within a few months of each other and was scarred/set for life.

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http://freethoughtblogs.com/pharyngula/ ... ent-777445

Thumper doesn't understand the allegation of email tampering and won't look up the primary sources (despite all the Hordelings telling anyone who grouses about PZ not linking them that's it's no big deal because anyone can look them up themselves). And despite not having the first clue what he's talking about he/she thinks the allegation of forgery MUST be ludicrous because it doesn't make sense in his/her made up scenario.

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decius wrote:
James Caruthers wrote:And yeah, is mirroring every single damn thing Radford does on PZ's own blog (complete with childish screaming and yelling) really HELPING Stollznow's case?
He doesn't care for Stollznow one bit. He must spin fast a narrative for his dittoheads and pretend that he isn't shellshocked.
PZ, in addition to being one of the most cynical amoral dickheads in America, really has terrible judgment. If he were anything other than a complacently tenured cow-college professor with free money from his horrible blog, if he actually had to fend for himself and survive on his native character and personality, he'd probably be in jail or sleeping in a dumpster, or at least getting his ass kicked on a weekly basis.

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Crabman wrote:Are these people taking the absolute piss out of themselves by getting upset over trial by public opinion? It has to be ironic, right? It's not fucking possible to be that completely oblivious.

This is Peez' home turf for fucks sake, they've all been part of it, but now it's time to bring out the fainting couch?

Boggles my fucking mind.
I like you. You should post more.

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TheMan wrote:
rayshul wrote:I finished the Radford Files while at work after JV facebooked them. Oh my goodness.

I know that several people on here seemed - before this Great Reveal - to be tending toward the Stollznow side of the affair. Has this altered your views at all?
I was in the middle...this has tipped me to Radford's side but I have a sneaking suspicion he hasn't told the whole truth. The ball is firmly on KS' court to retort or wait till court...hey that rhymed! I should get into rap.
If KS and co. have a reply, I doubt they will be able to hold it back until Court. KS and the gang seem to think the Court of public opinion, as set out in their blogs, is the only Court that matters. The slow leak of alleged debunkings is another way to undermine the opposition. But wait a year or two? PZ might be busy waxing lyrical about visiting porn shops for the science fiction again, or something.

FWIW I think you are right about BR. This whole thing sounds like a personal drama run amok - KS must choose the sexy but flighty bad guy, or the dull but stable good guy. Who will win?! Bad guy, no! Good guy! No, bad guy again! Yes, no, yes, maybe, no. Good guy. Definitely. Maybe. And so on. Adults? I don't think KS has any idea what she is letting herself in for, even before this reaches Court - if it ever does.

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:o :lol: :popcorn:

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Kenteken wrote:Is it me or has @parabaxter deleted his tweets of the conversation with Mykeru?
Yeah, he did. Good thing I screen-capped them.

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Kenteken wrote:Is it me or has @parabaxter deleted his tweets of the conversation with Mykeru?
Yeah, he did. Good thing I screen-capped them.

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Badger3k wrote:From personal experience, you might be amazed how many people will overlook something until afterwards. I almost got caught, but narrowly missed out on the crazy. friends didn't, and their experiences made me glad it never happened. Sometimes the "crazy" part seems more "wild and attractive" rather than "bunny pot".
At first I thought you meant "pot bunny" when you said "bunny pot."
Anyway ....

http://www.thatcutesite.com/uploads/201 ... er_pot.jpg

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Mykeru wrote:
Kenteken wrote:Is it me or has @parabaxter deleted his tweets of the conversation with Mykeru?
Yeah, he did. Good thing I screen-capped them.
Giz a look.

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So...let's say that Stollznow freaks and decides to sign the retraction, will Radford drop the suit? Or will he insist on all of her defense fund as compensation? If it were me, I would accept the retraction (drama tires me out) and request that she pay all his lawyer fees and whatever is left over for lost wages, etc.

Also, I'm wondering if his prior willingness to accept the retraction hurts his chance of recovery? He's asking for "millions". The defense could argue that since he was willing to accept no compensation earlier (even after 90% of the damage had been done), he obviously wasn't that harmed. I'm not sure how the courts look on that type of argument. They want the parties to settle out of court and if you remove any recovery if the plaintiff agrees, then who would enter into these negotiations? IE. If I agree to accept no compensation, then you can end the negotiations there and argue the above to the judge. I think courts frown on this kind of maneuver.

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If it turns out that Radford is right, someone had better be ready to beam PZ into deep space where he can safely explode, seeing that he helped lift $53K, and counting, of his supporter's money.

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Tony Parsehole wrote:
Mykeru wrote:
Kenteken wrote:Is it me or has @parabaxter deleted his tweets of the conversation with Mykeru?
Yeah, he did. Good thing I screen-capped them.
Giz a look.
I haz to crop them and reverse the reverse order. It's too early for that shit.

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The "tugboat" is chugging away over on the Peezus F. Christ article.

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TheMan wrote:
rayshul wrote:I finished the Radford Files while at work after JV facebooked them. Oh my goodness.

I know that several people on here seemed - before this Great Reveal - to be tending toward the Stollznow side of the affair. Has this altered your views at all?
I was in the middle...this has tipped me to Radford's side but I have a sneaking suspicion he hasn't told the whole truth. The ball is firmly on KS' court to retort or wait till court...hey that rhymed! I should get into rap.
Same for me. The new narrative seems to hold together better than Radford was such an idiot to forge a document and post it. What got me for awhile is that if the stuff Radford posted was sent to PZ then KS and Baxter also had it, then why are they continuing.

It occurred to me that PZ said that he had been in contact with them to find out that she hadn't YET signed the document. Could PZ have encouraged her by saying that he believed her in spite of all of this evidence. She then reneged on the document and decided to go fight back.

I think that they will take PZ's lead and throw mud at Radford without dealing with the majority of the evidence. The problem is that the more rational world will at the very least see KS as crazy and manipulative and Baxter as being weak and not able to control or leave her. No matter what happens now they are both damaged goods. Interesting to see if she still goes to TAM and if she does what reaction she gets.

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Incidentally, why does Elyse put selfies like this [trigger warning - a little throw-up in your mouth] on the Internet?

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Michael J wrote:
PZ is an ideologue, but I have thought for a long time that his main problem was that he married his childhood sweetheart. He hasn't had the pleasure of going out with range of women that would give him a little bit of cynicism. I got married in my thirties but before then amongst the women who were a pleasure to know, I also met my share of crazies and users.
I think his relationship blind-spot is shared with a lot of others.
The thing about borderline personality disorder types (and that's what Stollznow's behavior from details in Radford's file strongly suggests)
is that you need to be involved in a relationship with them before you can even begin to understand what they are capable of doing. An inexperienced man like Peezus may think this kind of thing is unbelievable - or so rare as to be practically discountable.
Yet the prevalence of BPD is something like 6% of women - which means that if you date 10 women at random you have a better than even chance that one will be a borderline case. In fact the prevalence of BPD is far higher than the prevalence of homosexuality (1-2%)
Add to this the 'mental chick' situation alluded to by rayshul and it may be that certain guys, such as introverts, may encounter BPDs at a much higher rate. Women seem to at lower risk of meeting a man with BPD - the prevalence in men is three times less (although this may because the disorder is expressed in a different and more violent way - for example men with BPD may be seen as having antisocial personality disorder, and may end up spending long periods in prison.)

And yet many men, like Peezus (who has probably only ever dated and married one woman), will never experience a BPD relationship.
And women themselves, unless they have been directly affected (for example, through having a family member with the disorder), may have no experiential basis for understanding what happens in these relationships.
A description of a BPD relationship can often sound like the worst sort of MRA or MGTOW fantasy about a nightmarish vengeful and malicious partner. For this reason they are often discounted as being exaggerations or that the behavior is somehow justified for some unexplained reason. (If she did hit or abuse him then he must have done something to deserve it.)
There's a famous hidden camera show that demonstrates the standard reaction to witnessing such behavior.

[youtube]LlFAd4YdQks[/youtube]

It's probably wrong to concentrate on the violent aspects of this - the mental and emotional abuse in these relationships is far more damaging than any amount of slapping, scratching and destruction of property.
This usually takes the form of the BPD individual pushing away their partner (by acting insanely jealous, hateful, smashing up their things, hitting them etc) but then threatening (or even attempting) suicide if the partner actually leaves. The partner then relents and decides to stay, and the cycle begins again.

The only solution to this is to be forewarned about the symptoms of the disorder in order to make a clean break at the earliest opportunity. If you don't know about it, it's easy to confuse it with treatable psychiatric disorders such as bipolar, depression or schizophrenia.

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Elyse puts up those monster pictures (looks like some shit from John Carpenter's "The Thing") because then her twitter friends go "ur bootiful babeh" and she gets fed her narcissistic supply.

No makeup selfies are all about narcissism. Fuck cancer awareness, it's all about the circle jerking. Sorry, I mean circle shlicking.

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Hunt wrote:If it turns out that Radford is right, someone had better be ready to beam PZ into deep space where he can safely explode, seeing that he helped lift $53K, and counting, of his supporter's money.
If Radford ends up getting even a portion of that pile of baboon cash, the epic rage-tears, topped with my schadenfroth, will fill a domed stadium.

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