Pardon me. He didn't say "listen to the woman."
He linked to an article where the author said, "Write, 'I think you're right' in Comments sections of articles, Facebook postings etc. of feminist women. Whether or not they’ve been harassed or attacked, agree with them and do so publicly."
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So, really, what David Silverman should have done in response to AJ Johnson was to say, "I think you're right" instead of doubting her word.
<blockquote>You’re being pedantic. Many, if not most, of the people in that audience were feminists. Certainly most of the speakers were. He was lecturing them by pretending that they weren’t aware that there are many approaches to feminism and by talking about privilege like he knows what it means despite his definition clashing with the common one that most of the people in that room not only know, but practice.</blockquote>
It doesn't matter if "many, if not most" of the people there were feminists, now does it? He wasn't "lecturing" them. He was talking about problems of abusing the concept of privilege and using it to shut people up, which ironically is exactly what transpired after his speech on Twitter, Facebook, etc. Also, when preparing a speech, there's no guarantee that everyone in the audience would be familiar with the subject matter, so you write as if most do not -- which is a common practice as an orator -- and which is something most speakers were likely familiar with. It is stupid as hell to go after Ron Lindsay simply because he didn't speak of feminism and its practices as though they were infallible.
So what if they were aware of it. How many times have you heard speakers attending a secularist convention or conference, speak of atheism and the importance of critical thinking as though the audience were not DULY informed of it already? Were they lecturing the audience, too?
And do they practice it? Many who were speakers at this year's WiS have several times abused the concept of privilege to silence others. "White privilege", "white male privilege", "able-bodied privilege", "heterosexual privilege", the list goes on and on and on. And any who shall challenge their view gets labelled "misogynist", "rape enabler", "rape apologist", etc.
<blockquote>And the problem with this is that, despite the insistence of people like you and Lindsay, no mainstream liberal feminist (which is the majority of ones in the atheist movement) thinks there is one true feminism. None of them. They certainly argue for how they think it should be interpreted, but that’s kind of how a discussion happens.</blockquote>
Oh poppycock. Ever heard of Christina Hoff Sommers? She coined the definitions 'gender feminism' and 'equity feminism.' If you say you're an equity feminist on, say, FtB, not only would they disagree - by implying you condone the harassment of women, or that you think women should stay in the kitchen, or that you think 'bitches ain't shit' - but if you stay firm to your view, they would ban you. They certainly don't allow any kind of discussion about it, at least not a long one.
For any of the more ideological ones, like PZ Myers, Ophelia Benson, Stephanie Zvan, Greta Christina or Jason Thibeault, any dissent and you get immediately sent into moderation or banned. Depends on how strongly you expressed yourself. Any opposition to feminism, banned. Any opposition to gender feminism, banned. Any questions and you're 'JAQing off' and if you continue arguing, you're banned. At least they're consistent.
<blockquote>And the problem with this is that, despite the insistence of people like you and Lindsay, no mainstream liberal feminist (which is the majority of ones in the atheist movement) thinks there is one true feminism. None of them. They certainly argue for how they think it should be interpreted, but that’s kind of how a discussion happens. Also, stop scare quoting “sister punishers.†The only people who use that phrase seem to be assholes who are trying to strawman feminism. Same goes for “gender traitorâ€.</blockquote>
Really?
On "sister punisher":
http://freethoughtblogs.com/butterflies ... ent-173203
Melody Hensley:
<blockquote>"This is what you call a sister punisher, a woman who turns on other women to gain favor of sexist men."</blockquote>
http://freethoughtblogs.com/greta/2012/ ... ment-71670
Melody:
<blockquote>"With all of the sister-punishers out there like Abbie Smith and Miranda Celeste Hale, we should also add a #womencallmethings."</blockquote>
http://freethoughtblogs.com/greta/2012/ ... ment-71722
SC (Salty Current), OM
<blockquote>"'Sister-punisher' is great, and I will use it from now on."</blockquote>
http://freethoughtblogs.com/greta/2012/ ... ment-71785
<blockquote>"Rupert McClanahan @ #28 and SantasLittleHelper generally: Your comments are in violation of my comment policy. Personal insults towards other commenters are prohibited, as is being unpleasant, nasty, snide, sarcastic. This is your one and only warning. Further violations will result in you being banned from this blog."</blockquote>
http://freethoughtblogs.com/greta/2012/ ... ment-71850
Santa's Little Helper to Greta Christina:
<blockquote>"You forgot to mention SC and Melody – they used personal insults as well.
Stay consistent, Greta.
Also, libel is in violation of your comment policy. Yet that person was not banned AFAIA."</blockquote>
http://freethoughtblogs.com/greta/2012/ ... ment-71940
Rupert Mclanahan to Greta Christina:
<blockquote><blockquote>"'Rupert McClanahan @ #28 and SantasLittleHelper generally: Your comments are in violation of my comment policy. Personal insults towards other commenters are prohibited, as is being unpleasant, nasty, snide, sarcastic. This is your one and only warning. Further violations will result in you being banned from this blog.'"</blockquote>
'I think I was just being accurate and descriptive. Apparently when you don’t like the statement, it is insulting, unpleasant, snide, and sarcastic. <b>On the other hand, comment #1 (Melody), right off the bat called people sister-punishers in an off-topic comment!</b> Greta, your post didn’t even mention Abbie Smith and Miranda Celeste Hale to my reading, <b>and yet it is A-OK for this Melody person (still convinced she is a Poe) to start trashing them in post #1, to totally derail the comments</b> and make this all about herself, in addition to Abbie Smith and Miranda Celeste Hale (who, as far as I am able to tell, did not bring a dog to this particular fight).
Sigh.'"</blockquote>
http://freethoughtblogs.com/greta/2012/ ... ment-72022
Greta Christina:
<blockquote>"Rupert McClanahan has explicitly stated that he will not respect my comment policy. He has therefore been banned."</blockquote>
http://web.archive.org/web/200508260227 ... kinda.html
Amanda Marcotte:
<blockquote>"Enter the Sister Punisher, a woman whose willingness to turn on other women to curry the favor of sexist men knows no bounds."</blockquote>
http://books.google.se/books?id=289AF8F ... te&f=false
On "chill girl":
Melody Hensley:
<blockquote>"Women that play the "chill girl" and put down feminists to gain approval from men."</blockquote>
Sara Mayhew on Melody Hensley:
<blockquote>"Melody Hensley doesn’t like people labelling her “professional victim†just because she disagrees. Wants Ben to “own upâ€. But she called me a chill girl, known sexist, and claimed that women ‘rag on’ Skepchicks just to try and get male attention (heteronormal much?). Did she own up? No. She’s never apologised—just blocks ppl.
CFI should be ashamed to have a director who organises WiS but accuses smart young women, like Miranda Celeste Hale, of getting speaking gigs not because they earned it, but because they suck up to men."</blockquote>
http://elevatorgate.wordpress.com/2013/ ... l-epithet/
Melody Hensley on the term "chill girl":
<blockquote>"It's a good descriptive term. I could spell it out in a couple of sentences, but why should I?"</blockquote>
http://atheismplus.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=677
Greta Christina on the Atheism Plus forum discussing the merits of "chill girl."
http://freethoughtblogs.com/almostdiamo ... ueen-bees/
Stephanie Zvan:
<blockquote>"How do you know whether you’re a chill girl? Simple. Is your reaction to complaints from other women of harassment and discrimination based on gender to turn to the guys and say, “Nah, I’m fine. It’s all cool� Then you’re a chill girl."</blockquote>
On "gender traitor":
http://skeptifem.blogspot.se/2011/07/in ... aitor.html
Was interviewed by Teen Skepchick:
http://www.skepticink.com/skepticallyle ... -698254915
http://teenskepchick.org/2011/07/14/tee ... skeptifem/
Just Paula Kirby, you say? Indeed.
Hopefully that's enough basket of links to satisfy you. By the way, like before, I'm going to document this in case it gets either edited or memoryholed. Cheerio.