welch wrote:
it is *A* definition of harm. not the only one, nor is it complete. Sorry, not giving you a laundry list so you can find an edge case and then try to tell me that's how things are every day for every man. You're really bad at hiding your intentions.
More hand waving and projection. You are a mind reader? Or are you just projecting your intention on someone else?
Let me do some mind reading of my own then. Seems fair to me.
You pulled some stupid shit out of your arse and projected it onto me. When you get called on it, you engage on more hand waving because you can not substantiate the stupid shit you pulled out of your arse.
welch wrote:
Based on what you've written I am. You spend a lot of time afraid of things. You should try not being afraid all the time. It's rather liberating. Also, hiding under the bed gets a bit boring.
More projection and mind reading. Well, allow me to retort!
Based on what you have written you seem to spend a lot of time afraid, and seem to think that others do also.
welch wrote:
The roots of inequalities in family court predate the radfem movement by some decades. But, if you have hard, verifiable proof that *none* of those issues existed before radfems, by all means present your proof of the fucking paradise society was prior to the 1960s/1970s.
Now you are attempting to shift the goalposts. You are being called out on your hand waving and spewing stupid shit while projecting your issues onto others.
Not to mention behaving like a "New Media Douchbag" while you are at it. Which seems to be the whole point of the exercise. To behave like a "New Media Douchbag".
welch wrote:
No more than I am going to define what "taking a shit is". I'm not here to make your life easy. If you think you have proof of actual harm, by all means present it. As we've seen, when presented with proof, (not handwaving and fearmongering), I'm perfectly willing to admit mistakes, as I did with the Summers derivatives timelines.
Show me the money already.
You are the one insisting that there is no real harm while hand waving and spewing stupid shit while projecting your own imagination on to others. Now you are trying to duck out of it.
And an uncharitable reading of "willing to admit mistakes" is "I had no choice". Guess what a "New Media Douchbag" would say to that?
welch wrote:
You're the one making the claims that radfems are taking over the world and if we don't stop them SOMETHING BAD WILL HAPPEN! ANY MINUTE NOW.
I'm the one saying you're a scared little man who wants attention and manages to feel important by trying to scare people into agreeing with you.
More projection on your part. You are the one projecting "fear" and "scare". What is it that you are afraid of that that you project this to others?
welch wrote:
You, JTO, Elam, and quite frankly, a rather large chunk of the MRM movement are about as self-aware as a half-empty can of day-old tuna. In that, you're not much different from that you oppose. You take a number of clearly-defineable issues which admittedly are problems, and start looking for boogey(wo)men in the corners everywhere. You turn overexcited college students, who, mind you get just as loud and stupid over minor mealplan changes as over MRM speakers, into the devil. They're young. Young people blow EVERYTHING out of proportion. I see my son do it all the time, he's 19. If you could get a degree in blowing things out of proportion, he'd have a fucking Ph.D.
More broad sweeping statements filled with invective and ascribed to me. More hand waving and assertion based on your feelings and projected on to me. Are you attacking me as a proxy for the MRM? Are you attacking my ideas or those of the MRM?
Based on your previous track record so far, I am not going to be surprised at what next you pull.
welch wrote:
The difference is, most people grow the fuck up at some point, and realize that you can't make everything TEH END OF TEH WURLD. At some point, you have to sit down and actually analyze things. I did this with Mckinnon et al YEARS ago, and that was when Edwin Fucking Meese was giving her lot a FAR larger platform than she has now. Even the internet wasn't as good a deal for her as that traveling geek show he ran.
And some people never grow up. Start acting like an adult and I might start taking what you have to say seriously in the future.
welch wrote:
Even then I realized that the people who would actually try to create her vision of society were the same numbers as any other fringe group, and that by and large, society routes around idiots the way the internet routes around damage. You don't pretend they don't exist, but you also don't elevate them to the levels you have.
Right right. Of course you do not say what "damage" is, and I am wondering if your definition of "damage" is as nebulous as your still missing and still unclear definition of what "actual harm" is.
Who knows what you mean? It might be perfectly clear to you but you seem to be having difficulty making a clear statement about much of anything.
welch wrote:
Look at your fucking group, really look at that website and the people behind it, and the vast, the VAST amount of sheer idiocy and stupidity you have to say you disagree with or wish wasn't there and all the rest. You spend more time telling me what you DON'T agree with than what you do, and then you play the "but the rest of it, that's all dead bang right, and you should take it all VERY SERIOUSLY"? On a good day, there's rather a lot there that only differs in name and gender focus from the drivel hensley is spouting, yet because it's got a supposedly more advantageous label for me, I should suddenly accord drivel some serious weight? Hell, even *here*, when forced to dig beyond the hysteria, you've had to back off your original claims of "OMG SEE WHAT TEH RADFEMZ DID!!!" more than once. Doesn't that indicate ANYTHING to you?
Right my "fucking group". Still conflating me with AVfM. Still projecting despite evidence to the contrary.
You take something you believe to be "sheer idiocy and stupidity" and ascribe it to me, and then I have to state that I "DON'T agree" with it because you have conflated me with AVfM and expect me to defend things I never said.
Then you continue to infer that I had to retreat from a position I never held, and which was in fact was something you made up in your head.
And then, you still continue to do it. And then you have the effrontery to claim that others are "as self-aware as a half-empty can of day-old tuna".
welch wrote:
Or is the movement so important to you that you ignore even reality?
I am not finding any of your arguments credible. You appear to be doing your best to make it difficult to find one in the midst of your ongoing conflation, projection and hand waving.
All of this while giving every appearance of behaving like a "New Media Douchbag" that you apparently decry, without giving the slightest hint of awareness of the inherent hypocrisy of behaving like one yourself.