This is addressed to surreptitious57; others may well find it TL;DR. (surreptitious57, you seem to be wagging your finger at "both sides" in the post I've chopped up below, though perhaps for different reasons; I've replied as if that's the case, but if I erred in my interpretation either just ignore, or set me straight!)
surreptitious57 wrote:I have just signed it now. An excellent petition though it probably shall come to nothing but even so
Rocko's petition ends, "We ask that those in the groups named above [Skepchick.org and FtB], and those associated with them, return to the community’s roots of critical thinking and the respectful free exchange of ideas."
Those organizations aren't governments, nor do they have some particular power to grant a request, so this looks like the use of a petition as an attempt to exert moral authority. Do you agree, then, that rocko's petition expresses a view of moral or correct behavior that FtB/Skepchick participants needs to "return to"? (If not, why did you sign?)
surreptitious57 wrote:I look forward to the day when atheists can come together and engage in critical thinking without all the other nonsense too. And both sides are guilty of this - no one has a monopoly on respect here. This is what is detracting from serious discussions on important issues.
Just because a number of people at FtB/Skepchick/A+ have essentially said "you're either with us or you're against us" doesn't mean there are 2 "sides" and a neat divide. There are several axes on which people differ in this situation, I think.
Willingness to examine one's stance or approach, and those of people one generally agrees with, seems more obviously lacking among people participating at FtB/Skepchick/A+. If you've noticed, here people appear to feel free to question or challenge one another's approaches or positions, even though there is also agreement expressed ("haha great photoshop" or "hey Al, great video!" kind of thing).
Presumably FtB/Skepchick/A+ see themselves as engaging in rigorous critical thinking, and think that people who disagree with them aren't. (For example, the accusation of "intellectual dishonesty" made against me by a mod at the Atheism+ forum, when I questioned the 3 claims in the petition to remove Justin Vacula, was apparently made with a straight face. Stephanie Zvan seems to think she is an awesomely sharp critical thinker; "I need better opponents", for example. Dillahunty's video rebuttal to Thunderf00t, for another, claiming massive dishonesty but then failing to show a single example of dishonesty.) This is just so crazy - so antithetical to critical thinking.
But you're also commenting on "respect". First, skeptical inquiry doesn't require respect, though the interaction may be nicer with it. Second, when one respects the approach one's discussion partner is taking it seem likely that respect for the person is likely to follow. When you hear lack of respect from people who have the critical thinking part down, I suspect it's usually because they've tried the rational approach, have gotten nowhere, and out of frustration use insults etc. Finally, don't discount the power of parody and humor to highlight hypocrisy; that's how Jon Stewart and Stephen Colbert rake in the big ratings and big bucks.
surreptitious57 wrote:It is rather antiquated thinking to deny one an opinion merely because they once referenced something you disagree with. The emotional exchanges are damaging any serious attempt at understanding and adopting an entrenched position appears to be de rigeur.
Yes. Do you have specific examples in mind from here? (I have my own several examples to believe you that it happens at FtB/Skepchick/A+ as a routine; I'm not aware of having developed an opinion because of something "they
once referenced" that I "disagree with".
Disagreement seems to be viewed differently here (and in every other skeptic community I've been involved in) than at FtB/Skepchick/A+. There's a very difference in attitude toward people asking questions, presenting information, challenging assumptions, and so on.
surreptitious57 wrote:This is what it has become and it is driving away many neutral observers who would otherwise be accepting of engaging with others and this is a sad indictment on the online community.
And...? People should roll over and accept the new overlords?
Frankly, if it drives people to engage more IRL, in their own communities, I can't see it as a net negative. ("Net" negative, heh.)
I'm not worried about people who identify as skeptics; AFAIK we're pretty tough (goes with the territory of not being so personally invested in your beliefs, AFAIK), and there's alot to be skeptical about in any arena of modern life. I do wonder a bit about tender new atheists who are just emerging from the cave of religion, and the effect it might have on them to try to find out more about atheism and inadvertently stumble into the middle of a war.
surreptitious57 wrote:I am referencing the general tone here rather than particular individuals as that is not my modus operandi.
If you don't like the tone, you don't have to come here or to any site where you know these skirmishes are taking place. That's not a way of saying "go away", it's simply pointing out that that is, of course, a choice you can make.
You can also continue to chastise people here for their tone, words, and photoshopped pictures. In which case, I have a link to offer for reading - would have to go look for it, but it's a great piece on the use & role of the slime pit's no-holds-barred approach. (Which has, I think, softened in recent months, with an influx of new members; I for one miss Commander Tuvok's prior usual greeting when some new people would join: "Fuck off, wankers", I believe it was.)
surreptitious57 wrote:I listen to anyone and everyone. For me it is not who you are, but what you say that is the determining factor. I do not take sides for that reason and regard myself as an independent thinker, though do not profess to have any great insights. Sometimes I get it right and sometimes I get it wrong. But I have seen those for whom always being right appears to be the natural default position and that is it - end of. This is about as far from skeptical thinking as one can get. I hope all the nonsense ceases to be at some forseeable point in the not too distant future, but I will alas, not be holding my breath on that one, sad to say. I will meanwhile in my own insignificant way, engage with all comers, as I have been doing so, and attack only their arguments and not them.
Um, okay. So you're Switzerland, congratulations. :D
Have you tried engaging people in discussion at Pharyngula or Skepchick or Atheism+, "attack[ing] only their arguments and not them"? If so, how did it go?
surreptitious57 wrote:I do not demand or expect others to do likewise as I have zero moral authority to do so.
No, no, no. You SHOULD be able to demand & expect these things.
You said, near the start of your post, "I look forward to the day when atheists can come together and engage in critical thinking without all the other nonsense too." If you and one or more other people who agree they value critical thinking are in a discussion, you DO get to "demand or expect" that they attack the argument and not the person, that they not hold irrationally to a discredited position, and most of the other things YOU said above that you expect of yourself, and value.
This isn't exerting some baseless "moral authority", it's simply holding the discussion, and discussant, to the basic standards of critical thinking and skeptical inquiry. It's pointless to EXPECT critical thinking yet feel you can't CRITIQUE the other person's facts or argument.
surreptitious57 wrote:But the divisiveness is not healthy for the community and that is an undeniable fact and if it did stop, it would be far better for it and absolutely so, too.
Does that count as a "great insight"? Are you right, or might you be wrong? (see your own comments above) ;)
I am pretty sick of it too, but find it hard to stop rubber-necking. And I'm not sure I'm willing to say it's clearly unhealthy for the community; it's uncomfortable, but might turn out to be a really useful shake-up + elucidation of pitfalls to avoid, including celebrity worship.
surreptitious57 wrote:I do however urge everyone here to sign that petition for it cannot have enough signatures in my opinion, so please do so. Thank you
See my questions at the start regarding your reason for supporting this petition.