16bitheretic wrote:About rape accusations and the number of legitimate rape victims who avoid reporting their assaults: I wonder if part of the problem is our western attitude that talking about sex is somehow gross and icky, to the point where sex ed is being restricted to abstinence only in many areas and large numbers of children are being indoctrinated from pre-puberty to avoid discussion of any subjects involving sexual behavior.
If we could increase education on not only the "birds and the bees" aspects but also topics like the consequences of sexual behavior, including what constitutes forced sex, discussion of the devastating effects of rape and assault on both male and female victims, and education on how to avoid situations that would put one at risk of assault or false accusation, I think we could really make an impact that improves the situation for everyone in the coming generations far more than the back and forth we currently are having. Perhaps this is all some high and lofty idealism, I don't know, but I've always thought that education and knowledge are the best ways to solve societal issues.
I couldn't agree more. It's plainly obvious that greater education equals more informed decisions and better outcomes on average. And it is religion and leftover religious programming that is mainly responsible for our shyness and anxiety regarding sexual matters.
The online atheist community has been on the right track with these subjects for years.....but such basic activism doesn't necessarily result in a boost for egomaniac bloggers....much better to create a huge controversy within the group through dishonest tactics, then you can fight for women AND call the shots!