I've never played any MMOs, but I did play some halo 2 matches on my brother's Xbox and I can say that there were some jackasses who got really nasty with the verbal insults when they heard me on the headset and realized I was a girl. However, I don't paint that as anything stemming from some system wide misogyny, I recognize that these people are just fuckheads in general and if they thought I was black they'd probably call me a nigger, if they thought I was Mexican they'd probably call me a beaner, and if they realized I'm Asian-American ethnicity they'd probably call me a chink or say I'm fresh off the boat or something. Trolls will use ANYTHING to piss off and offend their target and personal attributes are the simplest and easiest way to get under the skin of someone you've decided to taunt or bully.Remick wrote:
As someone who plays shooters online. I can tell you I have a hard time telling "female sounding" from "pre-pubescent boy" in some cases, though the actual words used often help differentiate. I didn't play much Halo-3, but I will say when Halo2 was new, the latter category was more prevalent than the former. Either way, the voice can be associated with a n00b, and n00bs get bullied and shit talked more than vets, this is true in every case. So when women start entering the gaming world, there is a (correct) feeling that an unknown female/squeeky voice is probably a newbie. I don't harrass newbies, but I certainly see it happen a lot. Honestly, the most common bullshit I hear is getting called a "nigger" for some reason by someone with a bit of a southern accent.
I will also comment, I used to play WoW for a while, and the women/girls in the guilds I was a part of were typically treated better than the guys, as long as they could do their job. Women who could not do their job, were often part of raids due to relationships with guild leaders, and that led to resentment and bullshit, but it had to do with them sucking at their job, not their gender.
All in all though the ratio of jackasses to well behaved Halo 2 players was much lower than people like Anita Sarkeesian and all the others who want to paint all gamers as basement dwelling misogynistic, racist creeps would have you believe. I think some of the situation also really depends on the types of games you play. I know alot of the other girls and women I've encountered who play games do play alot of MMO type and fantasy role play games where things are more cooperative. I don't use headsets very often if I play games, but with stuff like the Borderlands games, where everyone operates as a team, I've never had any assholes torment me. The times I have encountered gendered insults and attacks were all in competitive type games where as I said before I don't think the people really truly hated women, they just found the quickest way to piss me off and insult based on the sole attribute about me that they had knowledge of.